xalysabethh Posted January 30, 2004 Posted January 30, 2004 Ok quick recap mysituation " me and my husband seperated i met someone we were really connected but he fell totally in love iwth me let his kids get to attatched to me once i started feeling some pressure i backed away i also realized that me and my husaband were going to give it another shot soi cut it off last friday" but now he keeps calling me, or stopping by while me andmy kids are sleeping so i didnt answer the door and when he calls wer either sleeping or not home so i havent talked to him i did sned him an email or two but he reads them and doesnt respond i dont know what he wants from me or to do i just want it to be over. i knew he loves me etc. but he is driving me crazy.should i come right out and say " Dont call or Come by?" I wanted to end this civilly and nicely i would like our kids to still be friends {there real close} and i wnated to remain civil wiht him But with the way hes acting i might not be albe to. any ideas thansk xalysabeth
Sarah12385 Posted January 30, 2004 Posted January 30, 2004 hello Alysa i'm sorry you're going through all this i don't have any experience with marriage or with kids for that matter, i'm 19, but from what you wrote, i'd say you should try and wrap things up with this man. for your sake. i understand your kids are close with his, but this situation could make a turn for the worse and not be very safe. your kids welfare is more important. and yes, i think you should just flat out tell him that you don't want him calling you anymore, etc. if it makes you feel bad to tell him exactly why, just make something up hehe. besides, if you and your ex are working things out again, you shouldn't have the stress of this other man on your back. good luck!
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