hest812 Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 (edited) Hello all! Im single and Im 26 years old. Recently, my friend recommended me this 25 year old girl and we sms and i called her. I come to know her about 2 months ago. Last 3 weeks, I invited her out for lunch. We talked, had a great time and sent her home. From then on, I started thinking of her everyday. The second time I asked her out which was yesterday, watched a movie, have dinner. Then, I told her I really like her. It seems she was shocked but smiled. I quickly changed the topic, worried that I frightened her. Now, should I sms her, stating that I really like her and I wants to know how she feels about me, even though we just met two times? Or just wait for the third date and pour everything out? Thanks guys for help! PS: I noticed that this girl like to SMS but never even once she called me. Its always me that does the calling. Is this normal behavior for a girl? Edited June 14, 2010 by hest812
RedCherries Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 You don't have to tell her again that you like her, she already knows this now. By saying it again you may very well freak her out. And I've called guys before, but every woman has a different way of handling dating.
Author hest812 Posted June 14, 2010 Author Posted June 14, 2010 Actually, I wanted to sms her that I really meant on that day I told her I really like her. No beating around the bush. I didn't intend to frighten her, and I hope that she has the same feeling for me too..
Author hest812 Posted June 15, 2010 Author Posted June 15, 2010 Help! I need more opinions.. Should I msg her the question as stated above? Or wait for the third date? Thanks in advance.
that girl Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Ask her for the third date and skip telling her you really like her. You said it once, she gets it. The thing is, you really don't know her. You get along with her and I'm sure you think she's pretty, but going on and on about how much you like her at this point is about who you imagine her to be, not who she is. We've all been there, a great date or two and this person seems like they could be your soul mate. And it could work out or you could realize you guys just aren't that compatable. Ask her out again. Go on 2-3 more dates before mentioning how great you think she is. Women like hearing this, but saying it multiple times after two dates doesn't mean anything. You can say you had a great time with her though- once per date and once between dates max.
sagetalk Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Ok, you're getting into trouble here. Tell her, "It's cool doing stuff with you", but don't say I like you on the first few dates. She's going to think your wimpy. Don't text her, call her. Ask her out, don't ask her where she wants to go, tell her where you want to take her. If she says no or makes up an excuse back off. If she says yes, then start saying you like her with your actions and not words. Get the girl grasshopper or, if she's hot, someone else certainly will.
Green Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 It is much more ROMANTIC to show a girl you like her. Take her to do something she likes that is SEXY.... if she likes DANCING then yess DO THAT. Then when you have her out on the dance floor and your happy and she is happy... pull her close and KISS HER. BASICALY JUST KISS HER.... THEN MAKE OUT
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