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Decided to give her a second chance was it smart??


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Well my girlfriend cheated on me there is a whole nother post about that story wen she kissed a guy but I gave her a second chance cause I really think that it was just a mistake and it won't happen again I hope... She always tells me she loves me and how she's sorry that she hurt an amazing guy like me and stuff and should I believe that?? And I do really believe she loves me and ever since we got back together we've been great... But someone answer this ??? Was it smart to go back to her????? Plz just reply I really need some advice..!!!!!

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The fact you're asking this question suggests that you know, in your heart of hearts, it wasn't a good idea to take her back. But I suspect she's pretty much got you under her thumb, and you're going to give her a second chance no matter what people say. Well, it's your life. But consider the following.

 

1) How is kissing someone a "mistake?" It isn't. It just isn't. Kissing someone is a choice. It requires active participation. Giving someone a kiss isn't quite the same thing as slipping in the dark and falling into a hole, is it?

 

2) Would she have owned up to this "mistake" if you hadn't found out about it some other way? Would she have been "sorry" if she hadn't been caught?

 

3) How do you know all she did was kiss this guy? That's just the part you know about. For that matter, how do you know this guy was the only guy she made a "mistake" with? Be honest with yourself. You may not know 1/10th of what she's really been doing behind your back.

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