Jerry18 Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 I don't want any girl, I want to be able to attract a girl for a long-term relationship. If there's something I can do for an hour per day, for a total of 7 hours per week that can improve my chances... what would it be?
Arbitrariness Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Get rich! haha. The obvious response would be for you to work out and improve your self image, but unfortunately if you aren't specific about who you want to attract, your question becomes quite arbitrary (no pun intended). What should you do for an hour a day? Whatever the f*** you want!
Sivok Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Approach and become natural/comfortable/yourself when talking to women. It can be anything from asking them the time to discussing the latest in soccer. Once you built that comfort, they'll feel comfortable around you, and next thing you know the numbers will begin piling up. Goodluck
bagheera Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Honestly... I'd say it would be to have a passion. I find it very attractive when a guy is passionate about something. That can be anything from photography to music, coding computer software to carpentry... anything more than the usual "I like to drink beer and watch sports and work out" answer. So my suggestion would be to look for a passion -- if you don't have one in mind yet, think about things you'd love to do all day every day if you didn't have to work, things you've always wanted to do, etc.
TaurusTerp Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Dancing is good. Take up salsa or something. You get a pretty good workout, meet lots of women (DONT hit on them during! Dont be that guy that just joined for the women), and developing rhythm is really helpful in....other things, capice?
sally4sara Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Honestly... I'd say it would be to have a passion. I find it very attractive when a guy is passionate about something. That can be anything from photography to music, coding computer software to carpentry... anything more than the usual "I like to drink beer and watch sports and work out" answer. So my suggestion would be to look for a passion -- if you don't have one in mind yet, think about things you'd love to do all day every day if you didn't have to work, things you've always wanted to do, etc. I was popping in here to say that knowing how to dance, draw, play guitar or piano, wrench a car or carpentry, or cook are all pluses in my book. Being well read and up on current topics helps a lot too.
ADF Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Just make it clear that you are relationship-minded. So many guys aren't, that alone will be a mark in your favor.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 I don't want any girl, I want to be able to attract a girl for a long-term relationship. If there's something I can do for an hour per day, for a total of 7 hours per week that can improve my chances... what would it be? ...Growing and maturing (in the mind, I mean) the good news is that you can do it for 24 hours a day, every day of the week, without too much effort. but, that one friend you have, the one who irritates the life out of everyone else in your circles, making them wonder why you remain friends with such a person... do NOT follow his leads through life. In due time...
USMCHokie Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 If there's something I can do for an hour per day, for a total of 7 hours per week that can improve my chances... what would it be? This is easy. Go to the gym and train. If you already do this, then train harder for that hour. I would recommend this to EVERY guy out there...especially those who may be a bit lacking in self-confidence or are just fresh off a breakup...
bac Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Learn NLP in context of how to communicate with girls. You already have basic things to attract a girl. All you need is to take an initiative and do the right effort toward your goals.
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