lemonslc Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Me and my husband got married july of 2008. by may 2009 we decided we had enough. we were young and wanted to do our own thing. so we informally seperated and i started hanging out with some friends from work. At the end of may one of my best guy friends (that had been just a friend for over a yr) had just bought a boat and put on a work boating trip. we all went out and he had been drinking and was really flirty and touchy feely (he is a man whore so i did think much about it). well my birthday was the next week and he was taking his boat out of town with friends and told me he wanted to take me out for my birthday. on that trip was our first kiss. nothing else happened. we even shared a hotel room but slept in different beds. but i had never had so much fun in my life. the rest of the summer kind of went along the same line. we did end up sleeping together. everything was amazing. he was perfect and i had never been so happy in my life. he even got my name tattooed on his butt!! (nothing shows true love like that eh??) his down fall: he did have a temper but it was under control for the most part. one night he had been drinking A LOT and i went to his house. he was upset because i had missed that days boating trip. so i put him to bed and all was well.... until he woke up and started peeing all over his bathroom. when i tried to get him to stop he snapped. he threw me on his bed, bruised my chest, tried to choke me when i left, etc. needless to say i ended it that night. he went to AA meetings, domestic violence classes, therapy, etc. he called everyday for 3 months to try and fix it but i needed him to leave me alone. during that time me and my husband decided to work things out. the another guy stopped calling and everything was fine... until about 3 months ago. me and him went out to lunch (BAD IDEA). i miss him so much. hes getting married in a few months and i dont want to leave my husband. but everything makes me think of him. good thing he doesnt work with me anymore. i feel like i could cry at the drop of a hat at any given time. im fine on the outside but on the inside i physically ache. i always wonder if i made the right choice. when is everything going to stop reminding me of him??
DenverBachelor Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 he even got my name tattooed on his butt!! *facepalm* Do your husband a favour and get divorced.
What_Next Posted June 21, 2010 Posted June 21, 2010 Wow, please tell your husband divorce. I am fuming with anger now after reading your post, but that has no business on LS. Just divorce and treat your EX-HUSBAND like a human being.
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