Author Itzonator Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 Attraction is not a choice. What's the thing that's important to you, but you have the choice to do it or to make some difference.
Author Itzonator Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 He said Attentiveness.Not attraction. Excuse my ignorance, but what's the difference?
SilentVoice Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Your ignorance is excused. Attentiveness means to give attention; while attraction does not.
Author Itzonator Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 Your ignorance is excused. Attentiveness means to give attention; while attraction does not. Ok, so you do not give attention when you feel attraction at all?
jakinbandw Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Excuse my ignorance, but what's the difference? http://www.thefreedictionary.com/attentiveness
SilentVoice Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Ok, so you do not give attention when you feel attraction at all? Ok, I see what you are getting at. Yes, usually if you are attracted to someone; their would receive your attention. Is that what you are saying? I can't speak for OP so I don't know what he means by attentiveness,but I took it as something more emotional.
Author Itzonator Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 Ok, I see what you are getting at. Yes, usually if you are attracted to someone; their would receive your attention. Is that what you are saying? I can't speak for OP so I don't know what he means by attentiveness,but I took it as something more emotional. Since you joined the discussion, what's important to you in dating?
SilentVoice Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Since you joined the discussion, what's important to you in dating? I don't know. I actually don't really understand the question. What do you mean dating. Do you mean just like random dates with different guys . Or if I am dating one person. I guess when it comes to dating I like someone who is creative.
Author Itzonator Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 I don't know. I actually don't really understand the question. What do you mean dating. Do you mean just like random dates with different guys . Or if I am dating one person. I guess when it comes to dating I like someone who is creative. That's right, dating to different people means different things. I am assuming that being creative is what's important to you, when you are dating one person. Why you think creativeness is important trait in dating? Gosh, did I say creative? Or creativeness?
Feelin Frisky Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Attraction is not a choice. What's the thing that's important to you, but you have the choice to do it or to make some difference. Attraction of course is not what I said or meant. Let me ask a question and you'll see what attentiveness means. Ever go to dinner or something with someone who seems interested in everyone but you? Or if she talks, it's all about her and you feel like a stooge for paying the bill? If I take someone out, I don't expect her to have her head on a swivel while I sit there and guess what her fixation is. It's a GD defacto insult. Look up defacto.
EmeraldHeart Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Respect The person being upfront with their expectations. You need to be on the same page.
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