ADF Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Following a break up, everyone is bound to have mixed feelings. This is true regardless of whether they are dumpers or dumpees. Breaking a strong emotional bond with someone is always painful. There are moments when even the most determined dumper misses his or her ex terribly; obviously, this holds even more true for dumpees. Often, this pain is so severe one (or both) of the exes determines to get back together. It seems like a sensible solution. The trouble is, it is usually a mistake. In my experience, it is extremely rare for a second chances to end with both partners settling down contentedly with each other. It may happen occasionally, but not often. More often than not, second chances signal the beginning of a vicious break-up/make-up/break-up-again cycle that can drag on for years. And when that cycle finally ends, the two partners almost never end up together. Am I wrong about this?
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