ditched Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 we were together for a year and a half. its been a year since she left me. im still a mess. no one compares to her. and i still have no idea what i did wrong. i feel so disgusting and unlovable. i am a grown ass man i shouldnt still be crying over this.
thtguy Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 most likely you did nothing wrong. most girls don't leave a relationship unless they find someone else. Sorry to break it to you but I thin it's better that way
Toki Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Some people take longer than others to recover (it took me a good two years to get my head on straight). The important thing to remember is that it happened outside of your own volition, there doesn't have to be a reason why, humans do far more terrible things to each other for reasons that not all of us can comprehend. You may be blameless in the whole scope of things, and the worst thing you can do, is to make yourself a victim of her selfishness, and deceit. I'm not saying you need to go out there, and find yourself another woman... what I am saying is take some time to really reflect on all the reasons why she doesn't deserve you. Trust me, there are plenty... and the sooner you do that, the quicker you can move on.
Heatemyheart89 Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 you probably did nothing wrong she just moved on im sorry. She's only one person you know there are others. Others dont compare to her because you have put her on a pedastal. Take her off it and open your eyes to new people and new experiences. There will be another.
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