lettym Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 If your a girl and your boyfriend told you that yall should have sex to get closer together because thats how you get to know each other....what would you think? Would you believe it? But if he says it in the most sincere way and really cares about you but your not ready for sex yet in the relationship even though your not a virgin and have been going out for only one month and a half.
sagetalk Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 If your a girl and your boyfriend told you that yall should have sex to get closer together because thats how you get to know each other....what would you think? Would you believe it? But if he says it in the most sincere way and really cares about you but your not ready for sex yet in the relationship even though your not a virgin and have been going out for only one month and a half. Tell him yes when you are ready and not a second sooner. Sex is not how you get to know someone, this guy is just blowing smoke up your skirt. If I was your Dad, I'd throw him out and tell him to never talk to you again or else .
Feelin Frisky Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 He's kinda right although not so skillful in conveying that. But love-making is a deal breaker. If you two find you move in opposite directions when kissing and petting, or have to have rare ritual and frequent interruptions--the kind of stuff that grates on a person, It's best not to invest too much time in an eventual dead end. That's why people who really dig each other mostly go all the way these days by the 3rd date. I personally don't want to start having big feelings and then find my new flame to behave like a sack of potatoes in the old bedsky.
that girl Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Sexual compatability is important, but this guy is just being manipulative. You can get to know someone very well before having sex with them and you can rush into sex and realize right afterwards you didn't know them at all.
SarahRose Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Sexual compatability is important, but this guy is just being manipulative. You can get to know someone very well before having sex with them and you can rush into sex and realize right afterwards you didn't know them at all. This is a very old line guys use. He just wants in your pants.
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