dan86 Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 There is this girl who I really like we dated for like a month or so, before she sort of brushed me off. We had set a aside a couple days which we were both free, and then when I asked her out on one of the days she said "actually that's not going to work for me but ill let you know when I am free". This was very out of the blue sense things seemed to be going great. Although I feel like her ex might have been the reason for this due stuff that I have over herd from mutual friends. After not hearing from her for almost 2 months and recently getting over her, we both ended up going on a little trip with mutual friends, I thought things would have been awkward but it wasent at all. It almost felt like we just picked up where we left off. We spent quite a bit of one one time together, and we even kissed and cuddled a bit(both were some what initiated by her). Her friends also were making fun of us cause we went on a walk and were holding hands. We also talked a lot together. I think it was pretty obvious to her that I still liked her but I am not too sure she has any interest in me. I don't want to text her or call her or anything like that cause the way things ended originally. Do you think there is anything between us? Any advice, i am really confused!
bananaboat11 Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I'm about halfway through your situation... literally. And I fear I'm going to end up in your situation. I'm sorry to hear it man. I say distance and NC for now... it's how I'm coping. At least it doesn't hurt as bad if you were in a long term relationship...
sagetalk Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 She sounds really lame to me. It's your life though. This is why asking a girl about her ex is so important. If he broke it off with her, there could be big trouble in the future. If he breaks up with the girl he left her for, he'll come back. Most people do not process the common sense to say no, they will be tempted to fall right back in. Don't be one of those people. If she comes back and says that guy is out of her life permanently, then you're ok. But if he keeps creeping back, it's bad news. Date people who you are their number 1, not their number 2, 3, 4, or whatever.
Author dan86 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 Yea I wish I could just move on but for some reason or another I just can't...I think she broke it off with him and i know he isn't dating anyone. This is just confusing to me i wish she wouldn't show me hints of interest like she recently has if she truly is not interested.
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