alltoomuch Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I am lost, why did my ex boyfriend let me decorate his house a month before i found out he had been fooling around with girls on the internet, send me messages just two weeks before saying he missed me and loved me, yet as soon as i found out he suddenly appeared to say that i love you but not in love with you cliche and wanted to end it? and had been feeling that way for months. is it because i caught him out? can someones love change so quickly and drag me along the hurt road with it? it seems so unfair.
Lovellly Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 He does not love u. It can happen. U can get confused. Most of the time u can think u are in love and then it turns out u change and realise it was lust or that u are not ready to settle down. Sounds confusing. But it's also confusing for the person experiencing it. It's tough though when u are the one being let go. Sorry i feel your pain. On the other hand he could have also been playing u the whole time.
romango Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 can someones love change so quickly and drag me along the hurt road with it? it seems so unfair. Life is not fair. But it could always be worse. Count your blessings.
ADF Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 He didn't change. The person he became after you found out about his transgressions was the person he always was. He just pretended to be someone else. Why did he suddenly leave? Because in all likelyhood, the things you know he did are probably just the tip of iceberg. The real scope of his betrayal is probably far greater. He didn't want you to find out the truth. Believe me, you are well rid of this man.
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