PhillyDude Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I now only have interest in talking to woman when I'm horny? I wasn't like this 10 years ago at all. But it seems like now I want no contact woman if I'm not horny I just rather watch sports, hang with friends, and be on the internet, Can years and years of dating frustration cause a guy to end up this way?
summerl0vesyou Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Sure. you are no longer seeing a need for women beyond the sexual.. other things interest you more because no woman has probably ever shown you that she is more interesting. either that, or you havent been able to see the good traits beyond the sexual and find beauty in a woman's character, could be anything really.
that girl Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Maybe you just need a break from dating. But you're really only interested in talking to women when you're horny? What about your mom, sister, aunt, grandma? What about co-workers or friend's girlfriends? There are women who you (pressumably) don't want to sleep with.
Author PhillyDude Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 Maybe you just need a break from dating. But you're really only interested in talking to women when you're horny? What about your mom, sister, aunt, grandma? What about co-workers or friend's girlfriends? There are women who you (pressumably) don't want to sleep with. Now why in the world would you think I would be talking about family and coworkers?
xpaperxcutx Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Because civilized or not, we're still animals. Sometimes a need and want is stronger than actually being patient. Like watching a long drawn out movie and skipping forward to the very end. Then you'll have no purpose to buy it on DVDs because you already got spoiled with the ending.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Oh and most men date for only one thing: sex. For you, frustration about dating really just makes you want to seek out the goal of sex directly rather than having to wine and dine a good woman. So, frustration all the way.
that girl Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Now why in the world would you think I would be talking about family and coworkers? Because your family and co-workers pressumably include women. There is a difference between "I've lost my interest in dating" and "I live in a he-man woman hating cave."
TaraMaiden Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 You're throwing in red herrings and aspects of interaction with people in general that have nothing whatsoever to do with the OP's original point. He never brought the thought, idea or question of interaction with relatives, into the equation. I'm sure that had this been a relevant and worrying factor, he would have said so. Your doing so is steering the discussion in an irrelevant and pointless direction. In my view.
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