skydiveaddict Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 A girl you simply cannot get over, or perhaps I am just losing my mind? It's been almost 8 months. The heartache should be gone by now, but it's not.
D-Lish Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 We all heal on different timelines. IMO, 8 months is still rather fresh. You have made progress! As long as you are moving forward, even if it's slowly, that's making headway. Cut yourself some slack SD, and just continue to be a participant in your own healing process- it's important to be pro-active and I think you're doing that. You keep busy, you immerse yourself in a hobby that makes you wildly happy- keep that up and the heartache will just continue to dissipate.
D-Lish Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 thanks D........... Anytime my friend. I think you are being too hard on yourself thinking that you should have completely moved on by now. If you were sitting at home in a dark room refusing to socialize and participate in the things you like, I'd tell you to worry. I think it's a matter of continuing to do what you're doing and accept that it's a process. I think you're awesome if that is any consolation:love:
Author skydiveaddict Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 I think you're awesome if that is any consolation:love: So are you
paleblue Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I know it does feel like that sometimes, but i guarantee you will be moved on from this at some point. You wont even realize it. Then you will remember.. o ya.. her...whatever.... D-Lish is right, 8 months isn't that long.
Author skydiveaddict Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 D-Lish is right, 8 months isn't that long. It feels like long
alphamale Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 A girl you simply cannot get over, no, u can get over anyone, some just take longer
D-Lish Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Your short answers indicate a rougher than usual evening SD- are you okay?
Nikki Sahagin Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 The hopeless romantic in me would love to say, that you can't get over that special person, but in reality, I think you can get over anyone, it just happens, slowly but surely.
mickleb Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 skydive - Are we still talking this lady? http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t213736/ The one you dated THREE TIMES?? I'll tell you something I've witnessed here: people who refuse to move on from someone who broke up with them. Such a thing as this DEFINITELY exists. I am concerned. x P. S. You're getting there, Nikki. Good for you.
lost86 Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 i hope not, 2 months gone and i still think of her everyday, hoping some strickter NC should finally get me over her
USMCHokie Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Hey SD... I still think about her...so you're definitely not alone...but it does get better...you know that as well as I do...
Heatemyheart89 Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Nope. You WILL get over her. You need to let yourself though. get her off that pedastal. There are others that you will like as much .Trust me.
Feelin Frisky Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 How do you know your not experiencing depression that can be fought off with modern SSRI meds? They can help you pull yourself up by your bootstraps and get on with new possibilities. Heart-break will always leave a scar but it's time for a scar instead of a continuing open wound.
CLC2008 Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Logic says no. Logic says you can't possibly still feel a connection to someone from so long ago, someone you only knew for a short period of time. Maybe logic is something I totally lack, because it's been close to two years for me, and I still cannot get past that hurdle. It really worries me sometimes, that maybe there is something really wrong me, that I can't get over him. And we only met 4 times over a two month span! Recently, I've had several dreams about him, and that really doesn't help in the "I'm moving on process". People say it gets easier, you'll get over it, etc. And one day you will. It's still hard. I don't care what anyone says.
Author skydiveaddict Posted June 14, 2010 Author Posted June 14, 2010 How do you know your not experiencing depression that can be fought off with modern SSRI meds? They can help you pull yourself up by your bootstraps and get on with new possibilities. Heart-break will always leave a scar but it's time for a scar instead of a continuing open wound. I'm already on those, but for ptsd from the war. I just cant shake this girl's memory for some reason
Author skydiveaddict Posted June 14, 2010 Author Posted June 14, 2010 People say it gets easier, you'll get over it, etc. And one day you will. It's still hard. I don't care what anyone says. I agree thanks
Delacy Posted June 15, 2010 Posted June 15, 2010 Try 3 years skydiveaddict:eek: It's still early days for you.
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