Egychick Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Here it is...I made my boyfriend really angry...which caused the break up. I wrote him a loooooong letter. In it, I told him my feelings, and apologized from the bottom of my heart, because it was never my intention to hurt him. (no, I didn't cheat). He called me back 5 days after the 1st letter, and told me he wasn't mad anymore, but wanted me to come clean with things I haven't told him...He told me, don't call him and wait until he reads the letter. He called me at the office. So, when he called me, my boss was standing right infront of me. So when were about to end the call, I got another business call at the same time, but the other phone was on silent, so he didn't hear it ringing in the background. So, I didn't say good bye loud enough for him to hear me. I feel he was waiting for me to say something, because it took him a long time to hang up. So I'm afraid he is mad at me again, which messes up him not being mad at me before. So I wrote a another letter, and came clean about some things I had been keeping to myself (It is my right to). But I haven't heard from him. Should I send a text, to ask him if he read my letter or to apologize for hanging up without really saying goodbye? What should I do? I really still love him, and miss him soooooo much, and I just want to be at peace with him and not be mad at me any more for anything....I just want to hear in his voice that everything is ok. It has been 5 days since i sent the 2nd letter.
LuckyCharm Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I know 5 days may seem so long when you really miss someone but don't call, he said he'd call you when he's ready, so give him his time.
stillafool Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Absolutely, he said wait for his call and that is what you should do. When he calls you can tell him you didn't hang up on him.
DenverBachelor Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 What should I do? I really still love him, and miss him soooooo much, and I just want to be at peace with him and not be mad at me any more for anything....I just want to hear in his voice that everything is ok. It has been 5 days since i sent the 2nd letter. Don't call him. Leave him alone. You screwed up. If he comes back, he'll do it on his terms. In the meantime, save face and whatever respect you have for yourself and go into NC. If he's that upset with you because you couldn't say goodbye even though you were at work than he is the immature one.
D-Lish Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Don't call- he's got the letter, he obviously needs time to process what's been said- don't pressure. Pressure is the worst thing you can do. You'll hear from him- just be patient.
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