frenchgirl Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I've been dating this guy for a bit and things are going really well. I had known him since high school but only recently reconnected. He has a very good sex drive and he's very creative and imaginative. The other night we were having sex and we were playful and joking around as always. During the day we had seen a comedy with lots of jokes about "daddy hurting mommy" when a kid catches his parents having sex. Anyhow, my boyfriend was taking me doggiestyle when I jokingly said "you're hurting mommy" (expecting him to laugh) and to my surprise he became even more aroused and ****ed me harder. He even asked me to repeat the "you're hurting mommy" line a few times. My boyfriend is from the UK and this is the first time I'm dating someone who speaks English rather than French. What does it mean to him when I say "you're hurting mommy"? Does he think I'm his mom, does he think about his mom, or is it just an English expression?
Hot Carl Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 "Lorry" = truck. "Bonnet" = hood. "Mommy" = small sheep.
alphamale Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 What does it mean to him when I say "you're hurting mommy"? he wants you to have his baby
Shakz Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 He he he, he's a freak. Don't worry about it. he's not thinking about his own mommy, just momminess in general. He wants to be your baby, baby.
Mr White Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I've been dating this guy for a bit and things are going really well. I had known him since high school but only recently reconnected. He has a very good sex drive and he's very creative and imaginative. The other night we were having sex and we were playful and joking around as always. During the day we had seen a comedy with lots of jokes about "daddy hurting mommy" when a kid catches his parents having sex. Anyhow, my boyfriend was taking me doggiestyle when I jokingly said "you're hurting mommy" (expecting him to laugh) and to my surprise he became even more aroused and ****ed me harder. He even asked me to repeat the "you're hurting mommy" line a few times. My boyfriend is from the UK and this is the first time I'm dating someone who speaks English rather than French. What does it mean to him when I say "you're hurting mommy"? Does he think I'm his mom, does he think about his mom, or is it just an English expression? So, what's so odd about it? Aye mami, I'm gonna spank you good!
Engadget Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Are you serious? How is that even odd? Geez I must really be a freak then!
Shakz Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Are you serious? How is that even odd? Geez I must really be a freak then! It's freaky, just not in a bad way. If I had a nickel for every woman who called me daddy during sex I'd have a dime. Do prostitutes count? If so, then I'd have about $3000.
TaurusTerp Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 It's freaky, just not in a bad way. If I had a nickel for every woman who called me daddy during sex I'd have a dime. Do prostitutes count? If so, then I'd have about $3000. Which then you could spend on 10 more prostitutes! FIST PUMP!
Shakz Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Which then you could spend on 10 more prostitutes! FIST PUMP! Maybe five. Fist pumps costs extra.
Author frenchgirl Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 He he he, he's a freak. Don't worry about it. he's not thinking about his own mommy, just momminess in general. He wants to be your baby, baby. Ok help me out here. You're suggesting he wants to be my "baby" but he is NOT thinking about having sex with his "mommy" (while he's actually inside of me indeed)? How twisted!
TaraMaiden Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 (. . . )to my surprise he became even more aroused and ****ed me harder. He even asked me to repeat the "you're hurting mommy" line a few times. My boyfriend is from the UK and this is the first time I'm dating someone who speaks English rather than French. What does it mean to him when I say "you're hurting mommy"? Does he think I'm his mom, does he think about his mom, or is it just an English expression? Wait until the next time you have sex. See where he takes it. If he asks you to do similar, and gets a little rough with you - I'd consider listening to alarm bells. Now - I wasn't there, obviously (no, really.... I wasn't...) so I can't tell how the mood was - but just on the face of it, and just looking at it black on white, the fact that a woman tells her partner during sex that he's 'hurting mommy' and it actually turns him on and ups his sexual aggression, would be just a little worrying for me. I could be reading this all wrong, I understand that. But I'm just going by what you've described, coldly.....
Author frenchgirl Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 I'm also shocked by what I learned recently. I hear some people use the line "who's your daddy" in a sexual context but yet no one makes a scandal of it. People who say "who's your daddy", is that supposed to be cool?
Tree Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I find it creepy when people use the terms "daddy/mommy" during sex and it's a turn-on. In fact, I have told guys I've been with that if they EVER use the term "daddy" while we're having sex, the action WILL stop, the clothes WILL go on, and I WILL leave. Gross. I'm going to have to agree with Tara on this one. Or - alternatively, you could ask him about it. I'm a pretty open person sexually and like to talk about what goes on in there (when it's not in the moment). I would prefer that a partner just ask me about something that happened in the bedroom if he didn't like it or was wondering about my thoughts on the subject.
Gentlemen_shadow Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Don't think it's a rather usual expression. Some people like the use of words like mommy and daddy (usually those who have issues with sex in the past or those with other deeper reasons form my experience) Some people shout F*CK ME HARDER! Think you've just found a mix he quite likes. Next time you want him to do ya harder look him in the eyes and say or whisper in his ear to hurt mommy and I can pretty much promise you'll get that effect As to it being weird..... look what's out there before ya call that weird. And be sure to use that to your advantage
Feelin Frisky Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 If it hurt, you should not associate your expression with something you both saw as a joke earlier the same day. If it didn't hurt and it was good that he went harder then it's not enough to make a big judgement over. If it really did hurt, you should make it clear that you need to change up. If the bloke starts craving the same ritual and/or favoring remarks about his mother, then it's a little whack (or maybe a lot).
MorningCoffee Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I don't focus on the "mommy" part. What I see is the "you're hurting [me]" part, because that aroused him and he went at you harder. Maybe he is turned on by the thought that rougher turns you on. Maybe it's just fun, maybe it's getting creepy. . . I'd try and see what happens next time and go from there.
Itzonator Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I've been dating this guy for a bit and things are going really well. I had known him since high school but only recently reconnected. He has a very good sex drive and he's very creative and imaginative. The other night we were having sex and we were playful and joking around as always. During the day we had seen a comedy with lots of jokes about "daddy hurting mommy" when a kid catches his parents having sex. Anyhow, my boyfriend was taking me doggiestyle when I jokingly said "you're hurting mommy" (expecting him to laugh) and to my surprise he became even more aroused and ****ed me harder. He even asked me to repeat the "you're hurting mommy" line a few times. My boyfriend is from the UK and this is the first time I'm dating someone who speaks English rather than French. What does it mean to him when I say "you're hurting mommy"? Does he think I'm his mom, does he think about his mom, or is it just an English expression? LOL, next time do not say, "You're Hunting Mommy" -- It is dangerous
Jersey Shortie Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 I don't think it means he wants to do his mom or hurt his mom but I wouldn't say it's 100% not about his mom either. Does he have a good relationship with his mom? This could be some kind of emotional response due to his relationship with his mother and at the same time, has nothing to do with wanthing to be with his mother. OP, did it turn you on? It's a weird thing for you yo bring up during sex itself if you ask me.
Author frenchgirl Posted June 14, 2010 Author Posted June 14, 2010 OP, did it turn you on? It's a weird thing for you yo bring up during sex itself if you ask me. It had been sort of a running gag all day so while we were doing it I didn't think twice and made the same joke again. As for being turned on, it's a good question. The lovemaking was quite passionate afterwards so I do have good feelings associated with it. Hard to say, really...
Itzonator Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 It had been sort of a running gag all day so while we were doing it I didn't think twice and made the same joke again. As for being turned on, it's a good question. The lovemaking was quite passionate afterwards so I do have good feelings associated with it. Hard to say, really... Or maybe is NOT him, but you ... since you come up with the joke in the first place. Frenchgirl, what's the relationship with your mother?
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