Ilovehim Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 (edited) Now, I understand that there will be things that our partners will do that will turn us off but how do you tell someone something without upsetting them? I want to wait for sex so he is understanding about that. However we do kiss and do other things besides sex. The problem is that he likes to literally lick me all over and I do not like that. I love kisses all over my body but not being licked with so much saliva and spit all over me. He loves that done to him but I don't. I wouldn't mind a little bit of toungue here and there but it's too much. How do I tell him to stop doing that? He's the best in every way but that has got to stop and I can't find a way to tell him. Any advice would be appreciated. Thanks! Ps: when I say lick me all over I'm not talking about oral sex. I'm literally talking bout licking me all over my body. Edited June 12, 2010 by Ilovehim
TaraMaiden Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Maybe he needs the salt...... I think you really just need to tell him at one time, when he's NOT doing it..... that it turns you off.... but you love being kissed and nibbled, and having his lips run over your body.....Could he try that instead...? You know he loves it, and you love doing it for him...but you're more a stroking gal, than a licking one......
frenchgirl Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Simple. The next time he does what you don't like, tell him you prefer to be touched some other way, and when he changes his technique show him how turned on you are (positive reinforcement). If you feel like it, give him a "treat" so that your negative comment is quickly forgotten. Repeat as necessary.
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