aerogurl87 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Ok I had no idea where to post this, so I posted it here since in a way it's not a second chance at love with my ex, but friendship. So far we've been talking for about a month or so on a very cordial and somewhat friendly basis for the past 2 months. Here and there I'll text him or he'll text me and we'll talk briefly. Anyway, so last night while I was half sleep and feeling drunk (didn't drink anything but no sleep for a few days has that effect on me ) I texted him and asked him if he thought if everything in the past hadn't have happened did he think we'd still be together. Honestly I was trying to see if his attempts at friendship came from a place of sincerity or if he still wanted more when he returned from his deployment. But not wanting to ask bluntly, I figured that'd give me the answer I wanted without seeming too straightforward. So he texts me back and says "Depends, what do you think" and I said "I don't think so". Then he goes on to ask me why I say that, and I told him that we're on two different paths in life and as much as I love him as a person, we're not very compatible. So then he says "you can love more than one person at a time" like what the hell?!?! Anyway I told him "I do, I love all my friends, but I only love one person in a romantic sense as of now and that's my boyfriend." No more texts from him since then, so maybe he's finally come to the realization that I've moved on completely and what we had in the past is just that, the past. Anyway it feels good to finally be with someone who wants me and only me and not every other girl out there who batts an eyelash at him.
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