headfirst Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 think the guy im seeing is gonna break it off with me! Last night we were kinda talking on the phone but the conversation wasnt really going anywhere so I told him "im gonna go this conversation isn't going anywhere" then phone cut out so we never said proper goodbyes. I said him a text saying "goodnight then" and he sent one back saying "it cut out. night". I saw he was on fb but he didn't start any chats with me I haven't heard from him since the "it cut out. night" text im worried he's gonna dump me. Should i text him something? What should i say? I think he's out with a mate atm should I text him and tell him I wanna come and see him later..rock up unexpectedly? Im going outta my mind atm.
blueberries Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 you hung up the phone on him right? that may be why he's not responding to you...give him a few more days and then ask him how he's doing...if he doesn't answer, then it probably means he's not interested anymore.
Author headfirst Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 I gave in and texted him. Told him i missed him heaps and that i wanted to come see him tonight. He said "aw that's very sweet of you" - he didn't say he missed me He then said "i would come visit you but it will be too late". Then i said I would come visit you but I understand and he just replied with an "awww :(". I'm a bit concerned now. It's such a mess.
iheartlavalamps Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I say. . . text him once more. That will make three (from the "it cut out" bit). After that. . . Stop. If he wants you or your company, he'll come look for it. It doesn't really sound like he does though, tbh. I could be very wrong though. How long have you been seeing him? I'm guessing it's unofficial?
Author headfirst Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 He hasn't contacted me today and it's KILLING ME! I hate feeling this way. I don't know what to do I deactivated my facebook account so he a) couldnt stalk it and b) would have to see me to have any contact with me.
Citizen Erased Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 He hasn't contacted me today and it's KILLING ME! I hate feeling this way. I don't know what to do I deactivated my facebook account so he a) couldnt stalk it and b) would have to see me to have any contact with me. Come on, don't play ridiculous games like that, you aren't going to get anywhere pulling that crap. It's only been a couple of days, calm down. It's just a guy, your life doesn't depend on him calling you or not. Go out and do something and if and when he gets over it he'll contact you. And if he doesn't, well do you really want someone around you can't depend if you will hear from them after one silly comment?
Author headfirst Posted June 14, 2010 Author Posted June 14, 2010 People are telling me it's over after telling them what I posted here? I don't get it...would he just dump me over this and without properly telling me? We were OK before this happen and he was the one who called me in the first place?
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