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Boyfriend's platonic friend has HORRIBLE body - why is he doing her?

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allina Established Member

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Looks like his other gf's loose, flabby ass is tight where it matters :laugh::laugh:

TaraMaiden Established Member

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and ain't that the brutal truth!

whichwayisup Established Member

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My boyfriend dates two women (myself and an old girlfriend whom he said he had a platonic relationship with because he's hated her body for the 30 years they've known each other).

 

All the while we have dated, he's always claimed to have a platonic friendship with his cellulitic friend because her body is flaccid and it has always turned him off.

 

While he and I had dated exclusively, every time we scheduled a date, dinner or a vacation, she would always ask him to take her out to dinner or do something with her that made us change our dates for our vacations, events, etc. And since she was the sad, cellulite-ridden-spinster he asked me to feel sorry for, I always gave in.

 

Now he tells me that she's become "interesting" and that in spite of her hanging cellulitic ass that he always said made him want to vomit - he's screwing us both. She wants me to walk away and just disappear and leave her free to date him. I just don't feel like it. I think now I'm doing him out of spite. Now I've begun to wonder if he wasn't screwing her all the while I thought he and I were exclusive. His friends refer to her as "his moped."

 

What infuriates me is that he told me he didn't have sex with her all these years because he hated her body. Now he has no problem screwing her cellulitic droopy ass even though she's as flaccid and flabby as ever. I've also begun to suspect that he may have spoken horribly about me to her as well.

 

What the three of us have, is called a polyamory triad but she doesn't realize it. I wonder how her family would react to know that she has accepted having sex with a man that discarded her for 30 years while he is actively making love to another woman. He and I recognize our situation as a polyamory triad and that's what we call it. She thinks I'm going to melt away somehow and disappear. I'm really furious at him over this.

 

I'm calming myself down by merely posting this here but if I don't get some satisfaction soon, I'm worried that my anger over this may make me want to go and write a book about the entire incident complete with names and photographs.

None of it would qualify as slander or libel since it is all factually true and I can prove it. I don't react well to being one-upped by another woman.

 

He's lied to you about everything and said stuff so you won't get jealous or hurt. Obviously something is keeping him with her. Get over it!!!!!!!!!!! Stop comparing yourself and putting her down.

 

Consquences. Do that book and find a lawsuit waiting for you, as well as ruining your own reputation and self respect. I'm sure those closest to you will love knowing that you stooped to so low to write a stupid tell all book, and have so much respect for you.

 

Your ego needs to be pegged down afew notches.

SpanksTheMonkey Established Member

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The OP is not a girl - she is a mature woman in terms of age based on another post made elsewhere which implies she is a similar age to her boyfriend who is 62 and that the other woman in this triangle is also around that age. Unfortunately the name calling in the posts does not suggest maturity in all aspects.

 

http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showthread.php?p=2837666#post2837666

 

Are you kidding? I thought they were all in their tweens ha ha! I just don't know what to say now at that age you just don't expect behavior like this..

janie423 Established Member

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Are you kidding? I thought they were all in their tweens ha ha! I just don't know what to say now at that age you just don't expect behavior like this..

 

and why would that be?

 

love, jealousy, betrayal, rage . . . it's the same at any age. fasten your seat belt, my young friend! :laugh:

Rabican Member

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My boyfriend dates two women (myself and an old girlfriend whom he said he had a platonic relationship with because he's hated her body for the 30 years they've known each other).

 

All the while we have dated, he's always claimed to have a platonic friendship with his cellulitic friend because her body is flaccid and it has always turned him off.

 

While he and I had dated exclusively, every time we scheduled a date, dinner or a vacation, she would always ask him to take her out to dinner or do something with her that made us change our dates for our vacations, events, etc. And since she was the sad, cellulite-ridden-spinster he asked me to feel sorry for, I always gave in.

 

Now he tells me that she's become "interesting" and that in spite of her hanging cellulitic ass that he always said made him want to vomit - he's screwing us both. She wants me to walk away and just disappear and leave her free to date him. I just don't feel like it. I think now I'm doing him out of spite. Now I've begun to wonder if he wasn't screwing her all the while I thought he and I were exclusive. His friends refer to her as "his moped."

 

What infuriates me is that he told me he didn't have sex with her all these years because he hated her body. Now he has no problem screwing her cellulitic droopy ass even though she's as flaccid and flabby as ever. I've also begun to suspect that he may have spoken horribly about me to her as well.

 

What the three of us have, is called a polyamory triad but she doesn't realize it. I wonder how her family would react to know that she has accepted having sex with a man that discarded her for 30 years while he is actively making love to another woman. He and I recognize our situation as a polyamory triad and that's what we call it. She thinks I'm going to melt away somehow and disappear. I'm really furious at him over this.

 

I'm calming myself down by merely posting this here but if I don't get some satisfaction soon, I'm worried that my anger over this may make me want to go and write a book about the entire incident complete with names and photographs.

 

None of it would qualify as slander or libel since it is all factually true and I can prove it. I don't react well to being one-upped by another woman.

 

THE STUPIDITY OF WOMEN NEVER CEASES TO AMAZE ME!

 

You are upset at the other women? It is your boyfreind who is choosing to be with her. In fact based on what you have posted he was dating her long before you got in the picture. If anything.... Oh nevermind.. You will forever be doomed to having lousy relationships becuase you lack emotional maturity and have zero insight into your own emotions.

TaraMaiden Established Member

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I note with interest that Triad hasn't been back....

 

I'm hoping that she has a maturity-implant and looks at this dispassionately and logically.

Revenge and resentment never amount to anything other than just more pain and resentment.

The mature, adult, logical procedure at this point would be to close all contact with this guy down - and never see either of them again.

Jeesh, really - talk about "aren't you old enough to know better?"

 

Before your age was revealed, I coulda sworn you were in your early 20's...

Old enough to do it, but somewhat lacking in life experience in handling the situation.

now we find you're retired??? :rolleyes:

 

And do change your profile.

Again - no way is this a polyamorous triad.

Your gentleman friend is caking and eating and you my dear, are being left to gather the measly breadcrumbs!

janie423 Established Member

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Rabican and TaraMaiden - so nice to know that a person in pain can come to this forum and receive compassionate counsel such as yours . . . rubbing someone's face in their judgement errors is great entertainment . . . :rolleyes:

TaraMaiden Established Member

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Well, with a few thousand posts under my belt, I must be doing something right.

 

Trust me, how people come in has a lot to do with how I respond.

The OPs patronising, downright rude and deprecating first post is an eye-opener...

have you read the whole thread, from that first post?

 

 

Have a look at what others have to say and let me know what you think.

Rabican Member

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Rabican and TaraMaiden - so nice to know that a person in pain can come to this forum and receive compassionate counsel such as yours . . . rubbing someone's face in their judgement errors is great entertainment . . . :rolleyes:

 

Point taken, perhaps I was a bit harsh. People make mistakes, that is for sure but unfortunately they dont see the mistakes or they see the wrong ones. Sometimes to properly identify the mistake they need a pat on the back, a shoulder to cry on or a boot up the ass, this one needs the boot.

 

She has a lot of anger over this and while the OP is attacking this other women and what the OP doesn't get is that the OP is in fact the OW.

sugarbritches Member

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...how about dumping your cheating boyfriend...

 

Because I'm not tired of him yet. My problem right now is that my ego is injured and I want revenge. I've never been shared by a man that's doing a fat chick. Especially when that was always his excuse to do things with her.

 

I'm furious that I think he may have been doing her all along. That's the feeling I'm wrestling with. I'm a writer by trade and I have access to publications, mainstream media and my blogs are carried worldwide. I can destroy them both if I publish this. All our friends know all of us. If I publish this, it would destroy her significantly and frankly, that's what I want to do. I don't really care that much about him any more. My competitive streak is up.

 

I'm writing it here to spew a little venom out of me and vent. Thanks so much for your posting a response. I appreciate that.

 

You want revenge? The best revenge you could have is to give him to her. Move on and grow up.

janie423 Established Member

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Point taken, perhaps I was a bit harsh. People make mistakes, that is for sure but unfortunately they dont see the mistakes or they see the wrong ones. Sometimes to properly identify the mistake they need a pat on the back, a shoulder to cry on or a boot up the ass, this one needs the boot.

 

She has a lot of anger over this and while the OP is attacking this other women and what the OP doesn't get is that the OP is in fact the OW.

 

I think in her case she is kicking herself over her own "stupidity" and that's what she is really angry about. How could she not see this, we wonder. I just thought blasting her again with "stupid" could push her over. You have a point as well.

 

@ Tara Maiden - yeah, her post is offensive, especially how she disses the woman because of her cellulite. I happen to be thin but if I were "cellulite-ridden" I would have no sympathy for her. I just think she is suffering enough. If we push her she might really go off the deep end. Just my opinion.

Mme. Chaucer Established Member

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Seems that Triad is long gone ... but I still must express my horror that a woman over the age of 60 needs to tout having a "better body" to feel superior to her rival. THAT is truly sad. I'm over 50. My body is pretty good for my age. I take care to maintain it so I can get the most milage possible, healthwise, and also because of vanity. I've long since moved past the idea that its splendors are going to be a huge factor in any relationship. Our bodies are temporary. By this stage of life, we all know that they've seen some better days, too.

 

Triad would REALLY be horrified if her boyfriend had a shapely, nubile lady in her 30's for his other woman.

janie423 Established Member

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Seems that Triad is long gone ... but I still must express my horror that a woman over the age of 60 needs to tout having a "better body" to feel superior to her rival. THAT is truly sad. I'm over 50. My body is pretty good for my age. I take care to maintain it so I can get the most milage possible, healthwise, and also because of vanity. I've long since moved past the idea that its splendors are going to be a huge factor in any relationship. Our bodies are temporary. By this stage of life, we all know that they've seen some better days, too.

 

Triad would REALLY be horrified if her boyfriend had a shapely, nubile lady in her 30's for his other woman.

 

I am so with you on the first part. But with regards to the second part, I am not sure that would had been worse. At least the OP could have justified the cheating - after all, what 60 year old man can pass up a 30 year old woman (well some can!) - but the fact that the OW was in such bad shape added insult to injury, I think. Tough call.

Mimolicious Established Member

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This is one big joke... but FYI- there are plenty of "Skinny" girls loaded with celullite and have jelly asses. :rolleyes:

 

Seem's like it was nothing that a little workout couln't fix. You're BF (if you want to call him that) was LYING TO YOU! (I cant believe poeple are this naive).:lmao:

Joe Normal Established Member

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I'm a writer by trade and I have access to publications, mainstream media and my blogs are carried worldwide. I can destroy them both if I publish this. All our friends know all of us. If I publish this, it would destroy her significantly and frankly, that's what I want to do. I don't really care that much about him any more. My competitive streak is up.

 

"When you go to take your revenge, remember to dig two graves."

Mimolicious Established Member

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Wait 62??!!?! :rolleyes: Hone, you're about to kick the bucket sooner than later. (sorry no pun) Stop the nonsense, life is too short so live it up!

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