jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 (edited) i work in the mall ...so back in january 2010, i been goin to this coffee shop inside the mall ...i used to have my hair colored BROWN, so later i changed to BLUE. the asian girl that works there said this color matched u ...so i was like ohh ok ...my co-work was there too ...he said the asian girl from second cup likes u becuase he recognized the change...i m like ok sure...so from january 2010 until now...i been goin there for my break time ....so we started talkin and stuff. so one day i asked her whats her name and i introduced myself her name is AMY...so for the next few days i been call her name but she doesnt look like remember mine...thats ok but later on she said hi and calls my name i did the same thing asked how she is doin..etc. the day before VICTORY DAY, i didnt really want to talk to her because i was exhausted from work...so i lined up as usual she said hi with the smile i m like hey.. she asked me if i m on the holiday and told me she really likes to see the fire works at WONDERLAND...but i was tired so i said i didnt really like it...so i ordered a soda and sat down but later i was too hugry so i order a muffin and when she cashed out my muffin ...on the machine shows $0 ...i was like what?? i was handin her a $2 coin ...but she said is ok dont worry about ....but i said no is ok ....u will be in trouble...but she said dont worry about it...and walked away with a smile...so i told my co-works what happened...they all said the asian might like me and she is givin me hints to let me take her...so i was like maybe ...the FREE MUFFIN means LOVE:laugh: PART 1 Edited June 12, 2010 by jordan23
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 later on, she asked me if i m chinese or not...etc so in the end of MAY. i went to the coffee shop again....i saw her and i said hey...she smiled at me and wavin her hand...so we were talkin..i asked her hows work...etc...she asked me how many hours i m workin for...i m like i m here every night closin...so she asked me when i m off i m like whenever i want haha....then i asked her when she wants to chill...she was like not weekdays ...weekend should be ok....then i was planning to ask for her number...then she said she will let me know on wednesday and walked away to help a customer...and told me she will be here workin on wednesday morning ....so i finished eatin at the place i left , when she was standing there by the check out...she smiled and waved her hand sayin goodbye....so what do u guys think?? tellin me on wednesday means i might have a chance to ask her out right??? because if any ones avoidin me would say i dont know or even maybe later right.....when would she say not week days but weekends right??? sounds like she might go out with me....so i m waitin on wednesday mornin .......sounds like she is in charge in the situation haha not me PART 2
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 however i didnt make it on WEDNESDAY because i was sick, so i didnt show up, on wednesday she said havent seen u for a while...i told her that i was feelin well that day, she asked how was i doin, later that week i started to ask her how was her weekend stuff like that....afterward i asked when she is free...she said no sure...so i said let me get ur number and we will figure it out later...so she gave me her number haha....by the way when i asked her when she will be free and her number...i noticed that she did not look at me when i said it...first i thought she doesnt like me...but i think she is a bit shy haha beucase i asked in front of her co-workers haha at the same day i went to see her before she closed...i noticed she is workin with another girl there ...so i talk to her how was her day today....when she asked me i stop her and said can i have sode and bagel quick becuase i didnt have lunch today since it was busy at work...she quickly cuts the bagel and grab me the drinks in seconds....which i have never seen this before....when i was about to pay...she said is fine, dont worry.......from that forsure she likes me !!! YEAH!!!! PART 3
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 she gave me her cell...so today i text about 2 times...becuase she was at work...but later the night i text her...she didnt reply haha is it beucase i text her too much...she is waitin for me to call??? also i told her that even i didnt put cream on the bagel was still good because she made it for me haha ...now i kinda think i scared her also durin the text i spell her name wrong because i dont know much about u...we should hang out to get to know her more haha...i think i scared her on that one too haha in the text i asked her for facebook and msn stuff....she didnt give it to me ...she said i gave her mine and she will add me ...so whats that mean??? she wants to check my info on facebook or msn?? hahah also one text msg she FINALLY asked me when is a good time to chill with her haha......probably i said to her that i spell her name wrong beucase i dont know much about her and i only know that she is nice, kind and pretty haha PART 4
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 i spoke to her on the phone on June 7, 2010 ....it was like 1hr long haha.....through the talk on the phone for 1hr long we knew each more....she told me that her female co-works are single sayin that likes tall guys like myself stuff like that...i said they r not my CUP OF TEA...which givin her hint that i like her and i told her that she is off duty cost me havin a bad lunch...i said becuase u werent there to make MEALS for me...i had to go somewhere else for food haha...also she said she is open and weird and stuff...she told me she is VIET + CHIN ...so she even said we should hang out and stuff....i found out that she doesnt drive....she is cool through out the conversation...NO DEAD AIR!!! haha in the end she said she got to go becuase she got exam the next day....so i said u shouldve told me buecase i feel bad wastin ur time chattin....i said how about if u get good grade i bought u dinner....then she said nah u r just makin fun of me....just no dinner ...just hang out...then i said sure...is up to u since i still owe u since i wated ur valuable time of studyin.... i after talkin to her i felt kinda nervous....because at frist she sounds like testin me see if i like any other girls...i said no and stuff.....but afterward i said dinner on me...she said just hang out...i m like oh crap sounds like i went too far....so through out the conversation she is like testin me right?? PART 5
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 so i text her today sayin that hows her exam and told her that her co-works couldnt make good soda like the one she made for me...and she said i should speak to those to her co-works i said they r not my type and the type i like is tall and nice like u haha so my friends said since i spoke to her on the phone on monday night...so i shouldnt call her until thursday ...dont call her and makes her callin me this time...type of thing... she hasnt call me or text for 4 days now....and i m gettin crazy now...haha she makes those SPECIAL meals for me and free muffin and asked if i like to watch fireworks last time and she wants to go to ....man she got me this time !!! haha PART 5
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 so after without callin me ...so ended up went to coffee shop to see whats goin on....so i said hows goin things like that...so i asked her whats she doin after work...she said cleanin her room...so she asked me what am i doin so i said i will be gettin my car fixed so lets hang out ...then she said ok and let me pick the place....but when i was gettin my car fixed she text me that she couldnt make it becuase she needs to do somethin for her mom...that sounds reasonable becuase i didnt plan well just asked her to hang out...so i m like sure no big deal next do it next week...so she said she got school on modnay and workin tuesday to thur...i m so next hang out on those days...she said she is workin ...i m like ok (because we can hang out after work anyway) ...so i m like ok friday then...she said she is meetin with her friend or friends...so she said do u want to meet my friend??? so i m like what about u ditch ur friend or friends...so she was like no she cant he will get mad i was like what??? i m like ok what r u guys doin...she said she doesnt know yet...so i m like satur and sun.....she said workin on satur and had plans on sunday....so i was like wow ur WORK SCHEDULE is worst than mine in the end i said i m drivin now i will call u later back tonight..... so what is this??? what does this mean???? free muffin and the free drink and bagel....what the hell ??? i m lost
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 (edited) Dude, I got lost in the1st post. bascially what happened was that in january, there was a asian girl that works at coffee started to talkin to me sayin my hair color changed matched my style...my co-workers said she might be interested in me...so i was like ok whatever. later we been talkin to each other...i got her name...etc later one she remembers my name and called my name when i buy coffee ... the day before national holiday, she started it talkin to me ...asked when i m off and workin and she told me she would like to see the fireworks...etc...after i ordered the muffine, she didnt accept my money and is ok and went back to work. last week of MAY, i asked her when she is off so we can hang out...she said i will let u know on wednesday...i m sure i will be workin...then on wednesday i was sick, i couldnt show up....the thursday day she asked where was i doin that day...i said i was sick ...she asked am i ok...sounds like she cares about me...so i asked where she wants to hang out...she said not sure...so i said let me get ur phone number so we can talk about it on the phone...i got her number, later the afternoon, i went to the shop for break again, we started talkin again...all of sudden i stop her and said "mind if i have a bagel and soda quick becuase i didnt eat anythin at lunch" she quickly made me the muffin and soda like in SECONDS...and same thing i took out my $5 bill and give it to her...she said is ok AGAIN and dont worry about it...i m like ok thnx alot...and left at night time i text becuase she took me she will be working late ...i said this is me sayin hi and thnx for the bagel and muffine...she text me back the bagel wasnt that good i will make u something else next time...i said is ok the bagel is good because u MADE IT FOR ME!!! and in the text she told me that i spelled her name wrong is AMMIE not AMY...so i said that prove that i dont know much about u, we should hang out...etc friday night i called her...she didnt pick up she was in class ...so she text me back whats up...later i called her sayin hows school, later she told me that she is oppposite what i said about her being nice and kind...so she started to say i like older women, i should talk to her other female co-workers at the coffee shop...i said i only talk to the person i like, and they r not my type...i told her that her co-workers couldnt make the same tasteful meals as her...so i asked her if she is japanese or not, she said i told u once ...dont u remember i m like ya i do sorry...sounds like she remembers our conversations.....we spoke on the phone about 1hr, we talked about so many things about work, school...etc. in the end she said she got to go to study and has exam the next day...i m like ohh sorry u shouldve told me that earlier i wasted ur time...i said i will take u to dinner if u get a great marks...she said is ok...how about we just hang out and dont buy each other diners...i said sure is up to u ...then she said i will bug u later.. so next day i told my friends....all of them said dont call her makes her wants u more...i m like ok ....so since friday night until yesterday ...she didnt text me nor call me....so i guessed maybe she still doin her exam becuase thats what she told me....i m like ok sure no big deal.... so today, i couldnt hold it becuase the way she made me the meals so fast...it was touching so i went to see her hows she is doin...i said what r u doin after work...she said cleanin her room...i was like o_0? then she asked me when am i workin so early...i told her that i will be fixin my car so i will be around city of MARKHAM(which she told me she lives in MARKHAM) so maybe we should hang out...she was like ok we can hang out....what time and where...i m like i will find a place and 6pm for dinner...she said ok...so about 4:15pm i was drivin to the auto shop....she text me that she has to do a errand for her mom...so she wont make it by 6..and maybe postpone and hang out next week..and but she really likes to hang out...so when my car was being fixed from 4:30 to 5:30 i been callin her want to tell her that we can do it after 6...so i been callin from 4:30 to 5:30 no one picked up...so i guessed she didnt take her phone with her...oh well...so when i was on the way home...around 5:55pm ...she called me and said sorry she couldnt show up and is her fault...we shouldve planned ahead...i was like no dont worry is not ur fault...i didnt plan it properly...since i asked her want to hang out without prior notice... oh well so i asked we should hang out next week then, and whats ur schedule is like...she told me that MONDAY: night school, TUESDAY - THURSDAY : working, FRIDAY: chilling with a friend/friends, SATURDAY: working, SUNDAY: has a plan..... so she said u want to my friend...i m like what do u mean?? she said her friend called her 2 days ago and said lets do something on friday...so i said what r u guys doin...she said dont know yet...so i said lets ditch ur friend...she said no she cant...she cancel so many events with her friends so many times...so he will be mad...i was like o_0??? HIM??? what is this??? then she said where am i ....i said i m in city of MARKHAM...and headin to a gas station...she said i will call u back later...then i said i will call u back later tonight then...i called her around 9pm ..i said MAY I SPEAK AMMIE PLZ...she was ya ofcourse is AMMIE, what do u think... u shouldve said WHATS UP AMMIE.....i said sorry i thought someone one in ur house might answer the phone for u ...so is better to check first.....then she said my cousin came to house and talkin to my cousin now...i said ok cool...i will call u later then... ----------------------------------------------------------------- Bascially thats what happened...so i spoke my older friend...he said text her that " enjoy talkin to cousin and i m headin to bed, good night" he said this way shows her that i m upset ...the text was sent at 11:30pm ...until now is 1:07am ...no replied yet...so i guess she is sleepin?? my older friend said she DITECHED me this time, no matter how well i planned ...she still would do the same thing also he said if she thinks there might a chance she would drop everything and make it to the dinner with me...it doesnt matter what it is ...he said possible some one is tellin her to watch out and becarefull he said u should start plannin...take her out to dinner or movie...i said she is FULLY BOOKED next week...he said no one is FULLY BOOKED, if a girl likes a guy, she will make time so my older friend came up with a conclusion sayin that she might be ****ING AROUND and maybe not interested me at all...she wants to hurt me...but i never met her before or hurt her before...why would she want to do that?? also every time she text me, she call my nick name, she was the made one for me....so what does callin my nickname means?? one thing that bothers me is that i told her that she makes better meal or she is cool person and sayin she is pretty...she always said I SHOULD TALK TO OTHER FEMALE CO-WORKERS too....so whats she tryin to do?? so what do u guys think??? Edited June 12, 2010 by jordan23
tkgirl Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Dude, I got lost in the1st post. oh man! you just had to go and encourage him...
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 oh man! you just had to go and encourage him... here is the story bascially what happened was that in january, there was a asian girl that works at coffee started to talkin to me sayin my hair color changed matched my style...my co-workers said she might be interested in me...so i was like ok whatever. later we been talkin to each other...i got her name...etc later one she remembers my name and called my name when i buy coffee ... the day before national holiday, she started it talkin to me ...asked when i m off and workin and she told me she would like to see the fireworks...etc...after i ordered the muffine, she didnt accept my money and is ok and went back to work. last week of MAY, i asked her when she is off so we can hang out...she said i will let u know on wednesday...i m sure i will be workin...then on wednesday i was sick, i couldnt show up....the thursday day she asked where was i doin that day...i said i was sick ...she asked am i ok...sounds like she cares about me...so i asked where she wants to hang out...she said not sure...so i said let me get ur phone number so we can talk about it on the phone...i got her number, later the afternoon, i went to the shop for break again, we started talkin again...all of sudden i stop her and said "mind if i have a bagel and soda quick becuase i didnt eat anythin at lunch" she quickly made me the muffin and soda like in SECONDS...and same thing i took out my $5 bill and give it to her...she said is ok AGAIN and dont worry about it...i m like ok thnx alot...and left at night time i text becuase she took me she will be working late ...i said this is me sayin hi and thnx for the bagel and muffine...she text me back the bagel wasnt that good i will make u something else next time...i said is ok the bagel is good because u MADE IT FOR ME!!! and in the text she told me that i spelled her name wrong is AMMIE not AMY...so i said that prove that i dont know much about u, we should hang out...etc friday night i called her...she didnt pick up she was in class ...so she text me back whats up...later i called her sayin hows school, later she told me that she is oppposite what i said about her being nice and kind...so she started to say i like older women, i should talk to her other female co-workers at the coffee shop...i said i only talk to the person i like, and they r not my type...i told her that her co-workers couldnt make the same tasteful meals as her...so i asked her if she is japanese or not, she said i told u once ...dont u remember i m like ya i do sorry...sounds like she remembers our conversations.....we spoke on the phone about 1hr, we talked about so many things about work, school...etc. in the end she said she got to go to study and has exam the next day...i m like ohh sorry u shouldve told me that earlier i wasted ur time...i said i will take u to dinner if u get a great marks...she said is ok...how about we just hang out and dont buy each other diners...i said sure is up to u ...then she said i will bug u later.. so next day i told my friends....all of them said dont call her makes her wants u more...i m like ok ....so since friday night until yesterday ...she didnt text me nor call me....so i guessed maybe she still doin her exam becuase thats what she told me....i m like ok sure no big deal.... so today, i couldnt hold it becuase the way she made me the meals so fast...it was touching so i went to see her hows she is doin...i said what r u doin after work...she said cleanin her room...i was like o_0? then she asked me when am i workin so early...i told her that i will be fixin my car so i will be around city of MARKHAM(which she told me she lives in MARKHAM) so maybe we should hang out...she was like ok we can hang out....what time and where...i m like i will find a place and 6pm for dinner...she said ok...so about 4:15pm i was drivin to the auto shop....she text me that she has to do a errand for her mom...so she wont make it by 6..and maybe postpone and hang out next week..and but she really likes to hang out...so when my car was being fixed from 4:30 to 5:30 i been callin her want to tell her that we can do it after 6...so i been callin from 4:30 to 5:30 no one picked up...so i guessed she didnt take her phone with her...oh well...so when i was on the way home...around 5:55pm ...she called me and said sorry she couldnt show up and is her fault...we shouldve planned ahead...i was like no dont worry is not ur fault...i didnt plan it properly...since i asked her want to hang out without prior notice... oh well so i asked we should hang out next week then, and whats ur schedule is like...she told me that MONDAY: night school, TUESDAY - THURSDAY : working, FRIDAY: chilling with a friend/friends, SATURDAY: working, SUNDAY: has a plan..... so she said u want to my friend...i m like what do u mean?? she said her friend called her 2 days ago and said lets do something on friday...so i said what r u guys doin...she said dont know yet...so i said lets ditch ur friend...she said no she cant...she cancel so many events with her friends so many times...so he will be mad...i was like o_0??? HIM??? what is this??? then she said where am i ....i said i m in city of MARKHAM...and headin to a gas station...she said i will call u back later...then i said i will call u back later tonight then...i called her around 9pm ..i said MAY I SPEAK AMMIE PLZ...she was ya ofcourse is AMMIE, what do u think... u shouldve said WHATS UP AMMIE.....i said sorry i thought someone one in ur house might answer the phone for u ...so is better to check first.....then she said my cousin came to house and talkin to my cousin now...i said ok cool...i will call u later then... ----------------------------------------------------------------- Bascially thats what happened...so i spoke my older friend...he said text her that " enjoy talkin to cousin and i m headin to bed, good night" he said this way shows her that i m upset ...the text was sent at 11:30pm ...until now is 1:07am ...no replied yet...so i guess she is sleepin?? my older friend said she DITECHED me this time, no matter how well i planned ...she still would do the same thing also he said if she thinks there might a chance she would drop everything and make it to the dinner with me...it doesnt matter what it is ...he said possible some one is tellin her to watch out and becarefull he said u should start plannin...take her out to dinner or movie...i said she is FULLY BOOKED next week...he said no one is FULLY BOOKED, if a girl likes a guy, she will make time so my older friend came up with a conclusion sayin that she might be ****ING AROUND and maybe not interested me at all...she wants to hurt me...but i never met her before or hurt her before...why would she want to do that?? also every time she text me, she call my nick name, she was the made one for me....so what does callin my nickname means?? one thing that bothers me is that i told her that she makes better meal or she is cool person and sayin she is pretty...she always said I SHOULD TALK TO OTHER FEMALE CO-WORKERS too....so whats she tryin to do?? so what do u guys think???
tkgirl Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 here is the story bascially what happened was that in january, there was a asian girl that works at coffee started to talkin to me sayin my hair color changed matched my style...my co-workers said she might be interested in me...so i was like ok whatever. later we been talkin to each other...i got her name...etc later one she remembers my name and called my name when i buy coffee ... the day before national holiday, she started it talkin to me ...asked when i m off and workin and she told me she would like to see the fireworks...etc...after i ordered the muffine, she didnt accept my money and is ok and went back to work. last week of MAY, i asked her when she is off so we can hang out...she said i will let u know on wednesday...i m sure i will be workin...then on wednesday i was sick, i couldnt show up....the thursday day she asked where was i doin that day...i said i was sick ...she asked am i ok...sounds like she cares about me...so i asked where she wants to hang out...she said not sure...so i said let me get ur phone number so we can talk about it on the phone...i got her number, later the afternoon, i went to the shop for break again, we started talkin again...all of sudden i stop her and said "mind if i have a bagel and soda quick becuase i didnt eat anythin at lunch" she quickly made me the muffin and soda like in SECONDS...and same thing i took out my $5 bill and give it to her...she said is ok AGAIN and dont worry about it...i m like ok thnx alot...and left at night time i text becuase she took me she will be working late ...i said this is me sayin hi and thnx for the bagel and muffine...she text me back the bagel wasnt that good i will make u something else next time...i said is ok the bagel is good because u MADE IT FOR ME!!! and in the text she told me that i spelled her name wrong is AMMIE not AMY...so i said that prove that i dont know much about u, we should hang out...etc friday night i called her...she didnt pick up she was in class ...so she text me back whats up...later i called her sayin hows school, later she told me that she is oppposite what i said about her being nice and kind...so she started to say i like older women, i should talk to her other female co-workers at the coffee shop...i said i only talk to the person i like, and they r not my type...i told her that her co-workers couldnt make the same tasteful meals as her...so i asked her if she is japanese or not, she said i told u once ...dont u remember i m like ya i do sorry...sounds like she remembers our conversations.....we spoke on the phone about 1hr, we talked about so many things about work, school...etc. in the end she said she got to go to study and has exam the next day...i m like ohh sorry u shouldve told me that earlier i wasted ur time...i said i will take u to dinner if u get a great marks...she said is ok...how about we just hang out and dont buy each other diners...i said sure is up to u ...then she said i will bug u later.. so next day i told my friends....all of them said dont call her makes her wants u more...i m like ok ....so since friday night until yesterday ...she didnt text me nor call me....so i guessed maybe she still doin her exam becuase thats what she told me....i m like ok sure no big deal.... so today, i couldnt hold it becuase the way she made me the meals so fast...it was touching so i went to see her hows she is doin...i said what r u doin after work...she said cleanin her room...i was like o_0? then she asked me when am i workin so early...i told her that i will be fixin my car so i will be around city of MARKHAM(which she told me she lives in MARKHAM) so maybe we should hang out...she was like ok we can hang out....what time and where...i m like i will find a place and 6pm for dinner...she said ok...so about 4:15pm i was drivin to the auto shop....she text me that she has to do a errand for her mom...so she wont make it by 6..and maybe postpone and hang out next week..and but she really likes to hang out...so when my car was being fixed from 4:30 to 5:30 i been callin her want to tell her that we can do it after 6...so i been callin from 4:30 to 5:30 no one picked up...so i guessed she didnt take her phone with her...oh well...so when i was on the way home...around 5:55pm ...she called me and said sorry she couldnt show up and is her fault...we shouldve planned ahead...i was like no dont worry is not ur fault...i didnt plan it properly...since i asked her want to hang out without prior notice... oh well so i asked we should hang out next week then, and whats ur schedule is like...she told me that MONDAY: night school, TUESDAY - THURSDAY : working, FRIDAY: chilling with a friend/friends, SATURDAY: working, SUNDAY: has a plan..... so she said u want to my friend...i m like what do u mean?? she said her friend called her 2 days ago and said lets do something on friday...so i said what r u guys doin...she said dont know yet...so i said lets ditch ur friend...she said no she cant...she cancel so many events with her friends so many times...so he will be mad...i was like o_0??? HIM??? what is this??? then she said where am i ....i said i m in city of MARKHAM...and headin to a gas station...she said i will call u back later...then i said i will call u back later tonight then...i called her around 9pm ..i said MAY I SPEAK AMMIE PLZ...she was ya ofcourse is AMMIE, what do u think... u shouldve said WHATS UP AMMIE.....i said sorry i thought someone one in ur house might answer the phone for u ...so is better to check first.....then she said my cousin came to house and talkin to my cousin now...i said ok cool...i will call u later then... ----------------------------------------------------------------- Bascially thats what happened...so i spoke my older friend...he said text her that " enjoy talkin to cousin and i m headin to bed, good night" he said this way shows her that i m upset ...the text was sent at 11:30pm ...until now is 1:07am ...no replied yet...so i guess she is sleepin?? my older friend said she DITECHED me this time, no matter how well i planned ...she still would do the same thing also he said if she thinks there might a chance she would drop everything and make it to the dinner with me...it doesnt matter what it is ...he said possible some one is tellin her to watch out and becarefull he said u should start plannin...take her out to dinner or movie...i said she is FULLY BOOKED next week...he said no one is FULLY BOOKED, if a girl likes a guy, she will make time so my older friend came up with a conclusion sayin that she might be ****ING AROUND and maybe not interested me at all...she wants to hurt me...but i never met her before or hurt her before...why would she want to do that?? also every time she text me, she call my nick name, she was the made one for me....so what does callin my nickname means?? one thing that bothers me is that i told her that she makes better meal or she is cool person and sayin she is pretty...she always said I SHOULD TALK TO OTHER FEMALE CO-WORKERS too....so whats she tryin to do?? so what do u guys think??? unsubscribe... and ignore! love these LS tools...
Eclypse Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I'm sorry to say this Jordan, but it doesn't look like Amy is interested in you romantically. Yes she gave you the free bagel and soda several times, but from the way you describe it, it seems different to how you would give gifts to someone you are attracted to. Also she did flake on you a few times, she seems to be avoiding you. However I may well be wrong, as no one knows it as well as you do. My suggestion would be to ask her on a proper date eg candlelight dinner and if she rejects you or flakes out, well then you know the answer!
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 I'm sorry to say this Jordan, but it doesn't look like Amy is interested in you romantically. Yes she gave you the free bagel and soda several times, but from the way you describe it, it seems different to how you would give gifts to someone you are attracted to. Also she did flake on you a few times, she seems to be avoiding you. However I may well be wrong, as no one knows it as well as you do. My suggestion would be to ask her on a proper date eg candlelight dinner and if she rejects you or flakes out, well then you know the answer! really?? then whats the point to give me FREE FOOD for??? i kind know the other girls at coffee shop too...they dont give me FREE FOOD!!!! i mean my friends told me i should be funny and joke with her...so whenever i talk to her on the phone and texting, i been givin her hints....like i prefer ur meals other than other people make for me.....and i been giving her hints like i my type is tall and kind like u...since she been tellin me to go talk to other female workers at coffee since they r pretty as well.... i mean through JAN - NOW...we been talkin and stuff....do u think she is still afraid or shy that she doesnt know me well enough???
Ihavenoidea Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 sounds like she is either a tease or she just wants to be friends. Free food doesnt mean anything, my friends gave me free food all the time. Even when you made the joke about taking her to dinner she said "no just chill". I would say she is just being nice and wants to be friends and you are reading WAY too much into it
Author jordan23 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 sounds like she is either a tease or she just wants to be friends. Free food doesnt mean anything, my friends gave me free food all the time. Even when you made the joke about taking her to dinner she said "no just chill". I would say she is just being nice and wants to be friends and you are reading WAY too much into it wow.....one of my co-worker is wrong then...he told me to go for her, she likes u ...etc oh my god...i screw it up...and some friends been tellin me to give her hints...etc. so i guessed i gave her too much hints??? what should i do now?? any suggestion?? today or tomrrow i will not go to the coffee shop thats what my friends told me....
Author jordan23 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 so any suggestions what should i do next?? my friend told me give her room...dont show up at the coffee shop for 4days..and call her say hows her week and hows she is doin... but what do u guys think??? should i wait a little bit longer to ASK HER OUT AGAIN?? is it because she still doesnt know me much???
TaurusTerp Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Didn't or couldn't read most of that, jesus christ. Here's good advice though: Sack up, be a man, and ask her out. You've written like 20 pages here, channel that into calling her or something.
BeautifulMan Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Only a god like being such as myself can decipher this butchery of the English language created by humans.
Author jordan23 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 You had two Part 5s, so you lost me... bascially what happened was that in january, there was a asian girl that works at coffee started to talkin to me sayin my hair color changed matched my style...my co-workers said she might be interested in me...so i was like ok whatever. later we been talkin to each other...i got her name...etc later one she remembers my name and called my name when i buy coffee ... the day before national holiday, she started it talkin to me ...asked when i m off and workin and she told me she would like to see the fireworks...etc...after i ordered the muffine, she didnt accept my money and is ok and went back to work. last week of MAY, i asked her when she is off so we can hang out...she said i will let u know on wednesday...i m sure i will be workin...then on wednesday i was sick, i couldnt show up....the thursday day she asked where was i doin that day...i said i was sick ...she asked am i ok...sounds like she cares about me...so i asked where she wants to hang out...she said not sure...so i said let me get ur phone number so we can talk about it on the phone...i got her number, later the afternoon, i went to the shop for break again, we started talkin again...all of sudden i stop her and said "mind if i have a bagel and soda quick becuase i didnt eat anythin at lunch" she quickly made me the muffin and soda like in SECONDS...and same thing i took out my $5 bill and give it to her...she said is ok AGAIN and dont worry about it...i m like ok thnx alot...and left at night time i text becuase she took me she will be working late ...i said this is me sayin hi and thnx for the bagel and muffine...she text me back the bagel wasnt that good i will make u something else next time...i said is ok the bagel is good because u MADE IT FOR ME!!! and in the text she told me that i spelled her name wrong is AMMIE not AMY...so i said that prove that i dont know much about u, we should hang out...etc friday night i called her...she didnt pick up she was in class ...so she text me back whats up...later i called her sayin hows school, later she told me that she is oppposite what i said about her being nice and kind...so she started to say i like older women, i should talk to her other female co-workers at the coffee shop...i said i only talk to the person i like, and they r not my type...i told her that her co-workers couldnt make the same tasteful meals as her...so i asked her if she is japanese or not, she said i told u once ...dont u remember i m like ya i do sorry...sounds like she remembers our conversations.....we spoke on the phone about 1hr, we talked about so many things about work, school...etc. in the end she said she got to go to study and has exam the next day...i m like ohh sorry u shouldve told me that earlier i wasted ur time...i said i will take u to dinner if u get a great marks...she said is ok...how about we just hang out and dont buy each other diners...i said sure is up to u ...then she said i will bug u later.. so next day i told my friends....all of them said dont call her makes her wants u more...i m like ok ....so since friday night until yesterday ...she didnt text me nor call me....so i guessed maybe she still doin her exam becuase thats what she told me....i m like ok sure no big deal.... so today, i couldnt hold it becuase the way she made me the meals so fast...it was touching so i went to see her hows she is doin...i said what r u doin after work...she said cleanin her room...i was like o_0? then she asked me when am i workin so early...i told her that i will be fixin my car so i will be around city of MARKHAM(which she told me she lives in MARKHAM) so maybe we should hang out...she was like ok we can hang out....what time and where...i m like i will find a place and 6pm for dinner...she said ok...so about 4:15pm i was drivin to the auto shop....she text me that she has to do a errand for her mom...so she wont make it by 6..and maybe postpone and hang out next week..and but she really likes to hang out...so when my car was being fixed from 4:30 to 5:30 i been callin her want to tell her that we can do it after 6...so i been callin from 4:30 to 5:30 no one picked up...so i guessed she didnt take her phone with her...oh well...so when i was on the way home...around 5:55pm ...she called me and said sorry she couldnt show up and is her fault...we shouldve planned ahead...i was like no dont worry is not ur fault...i didnt plan it properly...since i asked her want to hang out without prior notice... oh well so i asked we should hang out next week then, and whats ur schedule is like...she told me that MONDAY: night school, TUESDAY - THURSDAY : working, FRIDAY: chilling with a friend/friends, SATURDAY: working, SUNDAY: has a plan..... so she said u want to my friend...i m like what do u mean?? she said her friend called her 2 days ago and said lets do something on friday...so i said what r u guys doin...she said dont know yet...so i said lets ditch ur friend...she said no she cant...she cancel so many events with her friends so many times...so he will be mad...i was like o_0??? HIM??? what is this??? then she said where am i ....i said i m in city of MARKHAM...and headin to a gas station...she said i will call u back later...then i said i will call u back later tonight then...i called her around 9pm ..i said MAY I SPEAK AMMIE PLZ...she was ya ofcourse is AMMIE, what do u think... u shouldve said WHATS UP AMMIE.....i said sorry i thought someone one in ur house might answer the phone for u ...so is better to check first.....then she said my cousin came to house and talkin to my cousin now...i said ok cool...i will call u later then... ----------------------------------------------------------------- Bascially thats what happened...so i spoke my older friend...he said text her that " enjoy talkin to cousin and i m headin to bed, good night" he said this way shows her that i m upset ...the text was sent at 11:30pm ...until now is 1:07am ...no replied yet...so i guess she is sleepin?? my older friend said she DITECHED me this time, no matter how well i planned ...she still would do the same thing also he said if she thinks there might a chance she would drop everything and make it to the dinner with me...it doesnt matter what it is ...he said possible some one is tellin her to watch out and becarefull he said u should start plannin...take her out to dinner or movie...i said she is FULLY BOOKED next week...he said no one is FULLY BOOKED, if a girl likes a guy, she will make time so my older friend came up with a conclusion sayin that she might be ****ING AROUND and maybe not interested me at all...she wants to hurt me...but i never met her before or hurt her before...why would she want to do that?? also every time she text me, she call my nick name, she was the made one for me....so what does callin my nickname means?? one thing that bothers me is that i told her that she makes better meal or she is cool person and sayin she is pretty...she always said I SHOULD TALK TO OTHER FEMALE CO-WORKERS too....so whats she tryin to do?? so what do u guys think???
Author jordan23 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 i didnt go to the coffee shop on SATURDAY, but i went today (sunday) ...she didnt say hi or anythin ...until i said hey whats up, she gives me this fake smile and said hi ( no wrinkle on the corner of the eye...dont know how to say it) .....so i said is it busy today? she is like ya not really...not much a eye contacts and not much conversations....so me and my friend sat there for 30mins...she didnt talk to me at all...i meant some times were like that...so i was walkin out...i said "see u later AMY" she gave me a fake smile again...i was like wow...i m the one u dtiched...i pretended nothin happened...but she looks like the one thats not happy...i gave her a smile when i said HEY HOW IS IT GOIN and GOOD BYE....u can say probably something happeneed to her or she doesnt like me or talk to me....so what do u guys think?? my friend said BACK OFF now maybe call her next week...dont bother her too much and even i go to the coffee shop i should do regular chat and stuff
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