mike1988 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I know I should have nothing to complain about...in the last two weeks I've had three dates. One turned into two sex sessions and spending the night at her house after meeting her at an Airport. (She is 32) The next one I met online five days later. She (26 years old) just wanted to drive around and meet me and said we were in no way shape or form having sex, but then we kissed and she said I "made her wet" so we parked and we had an intense quickie in her backseat fogging up the windows. Then I went out five days after that with a girl I met at a pool (31 years old) and she was all over me later that night and we parked and madeout. (She rubbed me through my jeans and I sucked her breasts but nothing too heavy) I'm beginning to wonder...am I being used by women?
xpaperxcutx Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Mike, most guys would be ecstatic if they could bed every attractive women that comes their way, let alone let them feel them up or getting a quickie. Do you have a problem with being used? I doubt most men would whine and complain, but what are the chances that you'll be back on here soon enough and complaining that you're not getting any?
Author mike1988 Posted June 12, 2010 Author Posted June 12, 2010 Mike, most guys would be ecstatic if they could bed every attractive women that comes their way, let alone let them feel them up or getting a quickie. Do you have a problem with being used? I doubt most men would whine and complain, but what are the chances that you'll be back on here soon enough and complaining that you're not getting any? Maybe the more I'm getting laid the more stingy I'm getting with what I want...I am not shallow but am leaning more towards relationships and younger women who are hotter. Maybe I'm just making up for all those High School days of being the geeky bookworm by having intense sex with women...IDK...
Lovelybird Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 You are letting others to tell how you should feel ? If you feel you are used, then stop having sex right away. It is a good thing that you want to relationship instead of quickies.
marsle85 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Yes, you are being used. You're pursuing women who are pursuing sex. This is global... if a man takes a girl "out" and his main priority is to engage in sex, the actual woman is second thought. If you want a relationship, don't have sex for the first few dates. Allow a connection to build, demand more of yourself and your partners. Sex is easy. True connection is the tricky part.
somedude81 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 It sounds like you just made this thread to brag. As far as I can tell, nothing about this thread relates to being used by women.
ADF Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Try eating more and bathing less. That usually keeps women at bay.
skydiveaddict Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 It sounds like you just made this thread to brag. As far as I can tell, nothing about this thread relates to being used by women. Agreed. Actually , I think he's making the whole thing up
ADF Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Agreed. Actually , I think he's making the whole thing up Damn. I've been hit with infractions more than once for suggesting someone was making stuff up. Let's see if they hit you as well.
Lovelybird Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 It sounds like you just made this thread to brag. As far as I can tell, nothing about this thread relates to being used by women. You assume that men have not feelings ? Why should a man be numb and souless in this area ?
skydiveaddict Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Damn. I've been hit with infractions more than once for suggesting someone was making stuff up. Let's see if they hit you as well. I'll let you know what happens.
somedude81 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 You assume that men have not feelings ? Why should a man be numb and souless in this area ? lol wut? Nothing at all suggests that his feelings were hurt and he's numb. Are you sure you made this reply to the right thread? BTW, I have some stories to share about being used by women where I've been really hurt. I was actually expecting a story where the OP was actually, you know, used by a woman.
AD1980 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Ill trade places with you doesnt sound like a problem to me Id kill to have a girl show some interest in me never mind numerous ones trying to have sex with me..
Lovelybird Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 lol wut? Nothing at all suggests that his feelings were hurt and he's numb. Are you sure you made this reply to the right thread? BTW, I have some stories to share about being used by women where I've been really hurt. I was actually expecting a story where the OP was actually, you know, used by a woman. If you feel you can have quickies without feeling be used, doesn't mean others won't feel this way also. In fact, men and women use each other for sex all the time, just some can sense that, some cannot. Maybe some even think it doesn't matter, I used her as well.
somedude81 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Bird, I can think of a million worse ways to get used by a woman than to get used for sex. I wouldn't even call his experience getting used since he mostly likely enjoyed them. This is getting used.
SilentVoice Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 used. Is that a real article.. That is the best **** I read all day ... lmao I hope it is not lol..I think
sweetjasmine Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Is that a real article.. That is the best **** I read all day ... lmao I hope it is not lol..I think Why's it funny?
SilentVoice Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Why's it funny? "Once unconscious the woman used a rope to wrap around her victims genitals to maintain their man reactions, then she would ride them like a cowgirl." If that is a legit article ..then I am going to become a writer .lol
Feelin Frisky Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I know I should have nothing to complain about...in the last two weeks I've had three dates. One turned into two sex sessions and spending the night at her house after meeting her at an Airport. (She is 32) The next one I met online five days later. She (26 years old) just wanted to drive around and meet me and said we were in no way shape or form having sex, but then we kissed and she said I "made her wet" so we parked and we had an intense quickie in her backseat fogging up the windows. Then I went out five days after that with a girl I met at a pool (31 years old) and she was all over me later that night and we parked and madeout. (She rubbed me through my jeans and I sucked her breasts but nothing too heavy) I'm beginning to wonder...am I being used by women? You sound like a woman. Jeepers creepers. Men getting used by women is usually materialistic dead ends. You're getting what we call GOALS. Either you're using reverse psychology to brag or try not to hurt your vagina.
xpaperxcutx Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Maybe the more I'm getting laid the more stingy I'm getting with what I want...I am not shallow but am leaning more towards relationships and younger women who are hotter. Maybe I'm just making up for all those High School days of being the geeky bookworm by having intense sex with women...IDK... ::clears throat:: need I say more? You are definitely the first one to complain about having too much sex...
somedude81 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Yeah it's a legit article, and that author added a little flair. Here's another source http://www.inquisitr.com/26696/russian-black-widow-woman-arrested-for-raping-10-men/ Same story here http://robertbonnett.com/2009/06/21/russian-woman-rapes-10-men/
SpanksTheMonkey Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I'm beginning to wonder...am I being used by women? That depends do they ever ring you back afterwards? do any of them try to hang out other then just for sex? Really tho you cant be used if you don't let it happen
whichwayisup Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I know I should have nothing to complain about...in the last two weeks I've had three dates. One turned into two sex sessions and spending the night at her house after meeting her at an Airport. (She is 32) The next one I met online five days later. She (26 years old) just wanted to drive around and meet me and said we were in no way shape or form having sex, but then we kissed and she said I "made her wet" so we parked and we had an intense quickie in her backseat fogging up the windows. Then I went out five days after that with a girl I met at a pool (31 years old) and she was all over me later that night and we parked and madeout. (She rubbed me through my jeans and I sucked her breasts but nothing too heavy) I'm beginning to wonder...am I being used by women? You are attracting a certain kind of woman. And, you're encouraging the behaviour by allowing things to progress quickly. You don't KNOW these women. Go on a real date and get to know ONE girl. Instead of just driving around..
Author mike1988 Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 That depends do they ever ring you back afterwards? do any of them try to hang out other then just for sex? Really tho you cant be used if you don't let it happen Yes, of course. I have to say though...I'm still self conscious because of all four of the women I've slept with...they were all either "average looking", had "mileage" or were "chubby" and some folks close to me tell me that I'm unable to get the "hot" ones...you know the types...who hang with the dirtbag Joran Van der Sloot's of the world...
Cracker Jack Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 That's their opinion, though. I see no reason why it would bother you that much. Some people have never even been laid at all.
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