Essence111 Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 I know there is no definite way to tell and you guys won't be able to answer for sure. But you guys have more experience in the dating game than I do, and my worst fear is misinterpreting her actions and being rejected. I plan to ask her out, and the worst that can happen is she'll say no.. but here's what's up. There's this girl at my job who I've known for a year. We talk briefly each time I see her there and she always greets me with a hug. She'll tell me she misses me when I haven't seen her for a week, and she'll tell me I smell nice. Most recently one hug turned into a 20 second not letting go hug and like "feeling me up" trying to tickle me, lol. She drew a heart on my hand along with the instructions "it better be there when I see you next". (and I kept it there to show her I care) Lastly, I got her number without asking for it But the things I'm unsure about: Could she just be naturally nice and this be normal for her? I know she hugs others and she hugged me in the past when she was in a relationship. Lately it just kind of seemed to "evolve" into more physical contact. And I got her number, she gave me it to continue a conversation she was having online with me, her ipod was dying and she uses aim on that. Still she didn't HAVE to continue the conversation and give me her number. And she'll talk to me in texts if I start talking, but she's yet to text me first to start a conversation..and to me, if she's interested, I think she'd want to text me? But like I said, I know the only way to find out is to ask her out, and I intend to...I'd just like some thoughts or opinions on your guys best guesses of her intentions. It's just tricky. I want to have some confidence going into this that she'll say yes but..... gah. I don't know. Sorry for my rambles, I look forward to your thoughts. Thanks.
Regularguy13 Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Relax buddy...i went through this a lot too...trust me just ask her out...i'm not saying i'm sure she likes you but she defenitely can...you guys sound like real good friends...maybe you should start talking about relationships and stuff with her get an edge y'know?...start being real nice to her...like a gentleman...but don't overdo it...you don't wanna freak her out...but defenitely ask her out before it's too late...your mostly scared because your affraid that maybe she's this way with everyone?...yeah it could be but don't let that stop you...just go for it...it's going to be okay...trust me a no is not so bad unless you build yourself upto it...hope i helped...
Bangle Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 It sounds like friendship to me, there is only way to find out. Ask her out on a date.
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