Author pureinheart Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 Once again, I wish to say.. I think all relationships can shape us as far as being learning experiences .. to help us to grow for the better and for future relationships.. But if you were treated poorly in a relationship outside of marriage - don't take it too seriously - as far as shaping your future .. If it didn't hit the marriage vows and His confirmation - how important should you allow it to be - in deciding your life - your future.. You are sooo cute:D
Just a stone's throw Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 Thanks, Pure... sometimes through posting here, there is continual pressure to confess and I know that it needs to be the right thing for all involved and right now I can't say that it is. Maybe someday I'll feel differently. But you're right it would be TMI right now! Thanks for that since I know you've been there-done that! JAST Thanks JAST and (((((((((hugs )))))))) to you also! You are right, until I get a handle on this there is really no energy for a R and it wouldn't be fair to anyone at this point. Actually if all of us were to look at the "pluses and minuses" the pluses would certainly win. I have a lot of good friends that I've known for years, so there is always something to do...the cool people on LS and am totally amazed at the tight closeknit R's I have via internet...God is good. You know JAST, unless it is vitally important to you and your healing sometimes TMI about A's can do more harm, it all depends on the people involved...for me never wanted details and never gave any, to me it just adds to the torment. Also in most cases, it's not just the WS that has done things wrong, it's the M as a whole that is the issue. You got my prayers always:)
Author pureinheart Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 You are all so kind and understanding and I want to thank you so much:) and want to speak everything good over the entire LS family:) Time for me to let go of everything that has held me down...God told me straight up yesterday when me and my God-Mother were in prayer to LET GO...ok. Being they type of person that will kick, scratch and scream, kicking all of the way, there is that point that there is no more fight and submission must take place. I shall live and not die to declare the works of the Lord. I let go of all of the hurt and pain, frustration, bitterness, anger, hatred, malace, unforgiveness and anything else of omission, comission and lack of knowledge. I release all of those who have who have done me wrong, and those that did not carry out the intitial task at hand, all R's...I want to move on and have the life that was intended from the foundation of the earth. I especially release exDM, may he find happiness and joy...it didn't work and that's ok:) good bye exDM
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