bigworm23 Posted June 11, 2010 Posted June 11, 2010 I've talked about relationship stuff on here a lot,a nd you guys have helped, so thought I'd throw a friendship problem at you. Ive got two friends from work that I hang out with quite a bit. Both cool guys, fun to go out with. However, one in particular is ALWAYS talking about my girlfriend. Literally, he asks about her, wants to know what shes up to, etc. Says how hot she is...I mean, okay, once or twice, thanks for the compliment..but over and over again? Maybe it's the type of people here? (I live in NYC with my girlfriend, from the Midwest however). I dont know...I just would never exepct this from people back home..Is this normal? What's this guys deal?
ADF Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 It isn't normal, and it isn;t a New York thing. This guy obviously has the hots for your GF. He resents the fact she is with you rather than with him and is being passive-aggresive about it. He says those things to make you uncomfortable, to try and belittle and humiliate you. Tell him you need him to stop syaing crap about your GF.
SpanksTheMonkey Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Nope its not a NY thing im originally from jersey and if some one did that back there it def wouldn't fly you should confront him about and tell him if he dose not pull his head in you will have to end the friendship.
bee55 Posted June 23, 2010 Posted June 23, 2010 if you stop this guy i think this is not good friendship, you should trust your friend unless you insure he has a hots with your GF. I'm personally ask my friends about their GF a lot but i never like them to my self.
belle jane Posted June 24, 2010 Posted June 24, 2010 i also think this is abnormal，you sure these guys is your friend? think about it, if they always make you uncomfortable, you must tell them directlly
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