What_Next Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 I'd dump her and get the heck outta therr pronto. Tell you what, tell her you want to postpone the wedding, see where that goes. Your in for a world of hurt if you marry this person.
AVR1962 Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 Sounds to me that she is not ready for the committtment and is still wnating to run around and have fun. Marriage is not going to make that any different.
LucreziaBorgia Posted June 19, 2010 Posted June 19, 2010 She doesn't want you as a husband. She wants you as a daddy to keep the bills paid, take care of her kid financially, and buy her things and take her on trips to 'keep things interesting'. If you are looking for a wife in the full sense of the word, you won't find it with her. You will end up investing a lot of time and money into a woman who will never be what you want or need her to be. She will promise you that 'things will get better' because that is what you want to hear and she knows that will keep you around. She is dangling a carrot on a stick basically, with no intention of ever letting you have the carrot. She'll be saving that for other men. Oh, and quite possibly other children that she will have and expect you to pay for and take care of. Seriously, get out while you can - but if you must stay then take this to heart: Do not marry her. If you want to stay, then stay but under no circumstances should you make this legal. You will literally be screwed for life if you do.
FindingE Posted June 20, 2010 Posted June 20, 2010 She sounds like a selfish user to me. I don't understand why you are even asking this board what to do - she already cheated once, and now is trying to get you to agree to a near sexless open marriage so she can go out and whore around at her whim while you are the sucker writing the checks. There are too many fish in the sea to even consider this relationship. GET OUT NOW.
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