califnan Posted June 12, 2010 Posted June 12, 2010 Ok, let me set the cigarette issue straight: It was a year and a half after the affair. In my defense, I wasn't smoking because of stress due to the affair but mainly the stress of life in general. ------------------- I was only pointing out that there should have never been an argument following her friend reporting that you had lit up .. Revelation of the affair and all of the circumstances surrounding it .. should keep her a good little humble girl, now..
Author Maladjusted Posted June 14, 2010 Author Posted June 14, 2010 I have to wonder about this friend of yours who ratted you out for having a smoke, sure not healthy, but still, it's nothing compared to what your wife did. BTW, who did your wife cheat with anyway? Anyway, could your "friend" have messed with your wife? Your wife had no right to scold you about asking about her friends husband. Lastly, your wife seems awfully controlling to me! If you are interested, here is a thread to the initial post I made regarding the whole thing: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t158015/
Author Maladjusted Posted June 14, 2010 Author Posted June 14, 2010 ------------------- I was only pointing out that there should have never been an argument following her friend reporting that you had lit up .. Revelation of the affair and all of the circumstances surrounding it .. should keep her a good little humble girl, now.. I know my wife was merely concerned about my health. To my discredit, I had been hiding the fact that I still smoked once in a while. I know in the grander scheme of things it's not that big of a deal.
Church Bells Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Is there anything MATERIAL to update us on??? ... or are you still into hand-wringing and belly-button gazing???
Author Maladjusted Posted June 14, 2010 Author Posted June 14, 2010 You do have a way with words, Church Bells. Matter of fact I do. Aside from the marriage, we had a talk about her friend this weekend and she sees her friend for what she is. She doesn't see the friendship lasting and therefore not being around to cause further heartburn. My discussion with her regarding our marriage and the past will commence this upcoming weekend when we will have time to talk at length.
turnera Posted June 14, 2010 Posted June 14, 2010 Communication is the key to a happy marriage. Two sides, and BOTH want to be heard.
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