Jesse R Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 Ok I've been dating this girl for a year now and every thong was all good I always treat her rite never did anything wrong at all but then one day her friend texted her and said if u don't tell him I will and I saw the message cause I was rite next to her wen she recieved it so then I asked her wats going on and she told me that she kissed this guys neck and lips once and wow was I crushed idk way to do I love her so much and I think she really is trying bc she's alwAys appoligizing and trust to get me to believe and stay with her I just have this horrible feeling inside I want to be with her but then I don't but I mainly do I've always had really bad trust issues b then I thought I cud trust her so I put as much trust possible but then she does this so I don't trust her burplz someone help idk wat to do some one give me advice plZ I need it...
RedRussian Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 1)I always treat her rite never did anything wrong at all 2)she kissed this guys neck and lips Ok, so you do the #1 and you get #2 in return for all your good work. Nice guy gets a short end of the stick yet again! I say it was more then neck and lips and it was not ones with this one guy within 12 months. If you have self respect you should protect yourself and your feelings. Take everything she says with a grain of salt if you want to continue, be on a lookout and make her earn your trust back. Ones trust is gone there is little hope in relationship growth, but you never know.
phineas Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 I find it really hard to believe her friend would go to that extent over some kissing with another guy. If it were me i'd go to the friend since she seems to be a better person than your GF.
Dexter Morgan Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 Ok I've been dating this girl for a year now and every thong was all good I always treat her rite never did anything wrong at all but then one day her friend texted her and said if u don't tell him I will and I saw the message cause I was rite next to her wen she recieved it so then I asked her wats going on and she told me that she kissed this guys neck and lips once and wow was I crushed idk way to do I love her so much and I think she really is trying bc she's alwAys appoligizing and trust to get me to believe and stay with her I just have this horrible feeling inside I want to be with her but then I don't but I mainly do I've always had really bad trust issues b then I thought I cud trust her so I put as much trust possible but then she does this so I don't trust her burplz someone help idk wat to do some one give me advice plZ I need it... first off you can always count on a cheater not telling you everything. more happened than what she is telling you. second, dump her or you WILL regret it, I can guarantee you that.
ADF Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 It is perfectly normal to feel the way you're feeling. But you will survive this. But you need to leave this woman. I know that is much easier to say than to do, but you need to. It doesn't matter how sorry she says she is. Would she have been "sorry" if her friend hadn't threatened to exposed her? I doubt it. If you forgive her for this, she'll just think you're weak and do it again. Only this time, she'll be more careful and you'll never know. Tell her it you can't trust her and that you're through. After that, do not communicate with her ever again, no matter what. No seeing her, no phone calls, no email, no texting. Believe it or not, you might be helping her as well. She needs to learn that actions have consequences.
RedRussian Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 Lets all take a vote! I vote to dump the loser GF!
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