thinkgal Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 I can't stop thinking about something he said...so yesterday I talked with my bf about certain insecurity issues I did that to try to fix this things in my head and to understand him better...but while having da conversation and me saying sum stuff I feel he lacks he said well maybe ur just not with da right guy so tell me if you don't wanna be with me and I'll go...that comment keeps playing in my head like soo if lets say I said ok lets not be together then he will just agree and walk off?? So he won't attempt to stay together or work it out??..now I'm not sure if he just said that to see what I will say or would he really just agree cuz if he did then that makes me feel he doesn't care about me or the relationship..am I thinking of it too much or??
Ilovecake Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 This has been said to me as well. When I was younger I though the same way as you, he would just let me go? Now that I’m older that statement is probably the most honest thing a man can say to woman. When you bitch and complain about who they are and the things they need to change to satisfy you, you are basically telling them they are not good enough for you. I mean you should be in a relationship with someone you like and appreciate for who they are not who you think you can change them to be to fit your needs. So what he is saying is that if you have all these problems with him, things he doesn’t see changing then maybe you should reevaluate your relationship.
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