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I've been seeing this guy for around 2 months now. Ive known him as a friend for around 2 years before this new phase and it started off really well, quite romantically...

 

I don't think I have done anything wrong but I'm worried he's losing interest..or is just busy and also very independent (aquarian trait, like me)??

 

Last weekend, my friend texted me to come out to a show, but later told me it was actually from the guy I'm seeing, he just didnt want to ask me directly again as he already had earlier that day, which she and I both thought was cute.

 

Then a got a text the next night, after we'd hung out in the day and I'd gone to a friend's for dinner, asking where I was. I only got it in the morning so replied and also sent him a short message on facebook. NO response to those until tues, just a brief facebook. i aske him how his sat night was, he just said 'avg'.

 

I've sent him a couple more facebook msgs this week which has been crazy busy for both of us, but i'm writing so I'm on the net a little more.. while in the beginning he'd respond right away, i see him online sometimes when I check in, but he takes a long time to respons. he did send a text on tue night saying he saw something that reminded him of me and sent me a kiss etc (in sweeter words)

 

Just now he sent a brief one asking me about some stuff then saying 'i'll be gone from midday tomorrow until monday. guess ill see you after?

 

Am i overreacting or is he playing it very cool cause hes not that keen? Is he implying he would like to see me before that, with the q mark? he knows i'm busy, so could just not be trying to disturb me, but this just adds to the stress..

 

my instinct is to not respond to that and wait until he's back and see if he gets in touch. idea, or bad idea?

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Generally, I think it'd be in your best interest to back off a bit and wait for him to contact you. When someone repeatedly contacts me, I'm more inclined to be short with them and get annoyed. Sounds like he's wanting you to chase him a bit, but it could be a little more than that.

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