mixwell Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 Okay in the past my ex has mentioned she has a b/f who is doing life in prison etc but in recent convo we had talked about how annoying it is to her when guys try to ask her for her number and how lame the approach is.. Anyways she was going on about how a mail carrier had came into her work asking if she had a b/f and she said no etc but I don't know is that was in the past when they were broken up or if it was recently.. I don't know if she was trying to hint me in on that she is single now or if this was a past experience (before he went away and were broken up) but a few times she has mentioned something about not having a b/f but when I asked her about her b/f she never mentioned they were broke up or she was single etc so I don't know.. With current thinking she has a b/f I haven't passed the boundary of flirting but I am analyzing if she is hinting me in or if this is past experiences irrelevant to her letting me know she is single.. I kinda want to bring up the topic of "hey i know you mentioned you saying you're single but yet you told me you're with your b/f" but I'm sure she could read right through that as me basically asking "are you single or not" so I don't know about it.. If I knew she were single I would be more flirty and aggressive with her but with past verbal convo's I assume she could possible be with this guy still.. Any input is much appreciated.. Hope someone reads this and replies unlike my last thread. Peace
Ihavenoidea Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 I know I sometimes make things complicated but DAMN, Just ask her out or ask her if she has a BF
Author mixwell Posted June 10, 2010 Author Posted June 10, 2010 I understand what your'e saying but I don't know how beat around the bush and ask her "so i noticed you said you didn't have b/f but was that within the year or was it when you were split up" but I believe that would bring up a HUGE interest factor of me bluntly asking her.. Hell with our history I feel like saying F it and just ask her bluntly but I am trying to reserve my feelings a bit and not make things odd with us be being blunt but im sure she has to know I have some sort of interest. We're kinda touchy feely etc and hell ive stayed at her place before (although on the couch) but with our past of a 7 year relationship I don't know she is being friendly or what.. she does keep saying I love my co-worker and why dont i date her etc (this chick has b/f) but my ex almost appears jealous on the topic and one time was trying to tickle me.. It is hard to read if it is flirting or just f ing around because I've known her so long she finds it as friendly joking.. THAT is the hard part.. If it was a chick I didn't know I could read her better but since we were intimate and with such history it is hard to read if she is just being friendly or flirty. This is why i feel like telling her bluntly that I still have feelings to cut through the BS dating defense because we know each other very well.. I honestly feel like this could have been the women I would spent the rest of my life with and be happy with but I feel like telling her this might weaking my approach or so to speak "let the cat outta the bag" AGAIN I have been flirty and I'm sure she knows I am still somewhat interested.. **** this is stupid and I hate anaylizing **** like I am 16.
Feelin Frisky Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 I'd ask her straight out: "so what's the deal with the jailbird?"
Author mixwell Posted June 10, 2010 Author Posted June 10, 2010 I'd ask her straight out: "so what's the deal with the jailbird?" i kinda agree b/c she knows his situation. but i wouldn't wana offend her but i feel like askin her straight up what the deal is? i just dont know if she sees us as friends only or what so it would be hard layin all my card on the table in this scenario
Author mixwell Posted June 10, 2010 Author Posted June 10, 2010 it appears in this situation maybe i should be blunt and ask her wtf.. i know the whole scenario seems ghetto but i love this chick like no other n im not 15 so i have an outlook on relationships but we broke up b/c i moved away, nothin hostile.. i guess i could risk lookin like a douche and showin my feelings in this scenario?
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