why is she distancing herself?

[jb89]

if you will not get Sex from this woman, will you try to get at least half of the money back from her for the ticket?

 

I laughed, but I'm not really going to even honor that with a response

 

 

At this point our conversations are just dull and have literally NO substance to them. Do I ask her why we went from talking all day to barely at all? How bad of an idea is that? This anxiety is killing me, seriously

[stace79]

I laughed, but I'm not really going to even honor that with a response

 

 

At this point our conversations are just dull and have literally NO substance to them. Do I ask her why we went from talking all day to barely at all? How bad of an idea is that? This anxiety is killing me, seriously

 

Maybe it's overkill. My LDR bf and I go through phases, too. For awhile we talk all the time, hours at a time. Then we kinda run out of things to talk about. There's only so much we can tell each other about our mundane lives at work and such.

[jb89]

Maybe it's overkill. My LDR bf and I go through phases, too. For awhile we talk all the time, hours at a time. Then we kinda run out of things to talk about. There's only so much we can tell each other about our mundane lives at work and such.

This is a great point as well, thanks.

 

She brought up things related to her coming here last night and I just didn't really show much reaction to it as far as excitement, I just agreed with whatever she said. I guess aside from not having much to talk about, the intimacy in conversation isn't really there either.

 

Either way, I could just as easily just be reading too far into the whole situation, I'll just have to see if she bails on me or not.

[carhill]

Watch out for a pattern.

 

Also, at your age, focus more on growing yourself rather than the intricacies of male/female relationships. Enjoy the ladies but don't take them so seriously. Good luck