TeacupMovinON Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 I am usually pretty good about following my instincts. In this particular situation, I am lost! I have been on three dates with a man that I am really interested in. This is the first guy I have really enjoyed spending time with since a huge break-up about a year and a half ago. We have been communicating now for almost a month, and like I said, we have had three dates (which he has initiated). We do not talk daily, and sometimes only once or so a week. The communication level varies from week to week, and I think a lot of this has to do with his busy schedule. He is entering in to medical school, and is not of the traditional age to do so. He is in his thirties. I am not sure if he is interested or not! He has never tried to give me a kiss, only hugs, at the end of dates. I try to let him know that I am interested, but also give him tons of space. Don't want to smother! He also had a tuff break-up about a year ago, and has many other changes in his life since then. Is it possible that this man is intrested and just very busy? We always seem to have a great time together, but no kisses in three dates? I am so confused and my instincts are not kicking in!! Help.
ADF Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 There are all kinds of reason this man may not have kissed you, but a lack of interest seems unlikely. He went out with you not once, but three times. And let's face it, men almost NEVER go out of their way to spend time with women unless they are attracted to them. Almost never. Maybe he's shy. Maybe he's not sure if you are interested in him. Maybe he is so amazed that someone like you is willing to go out with him, he is a bit shell-shocked. Nect time, give him a kiss and see what happens.
Shakz Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 The poor bastard's probably just exhausted. I agree with ATF that maybe you should make the first move in this case, just because it's likely crossed his mind but he's too damn tired to initiate the romance. He would probably appreciate your taking the lead in this department, so long as you don't move too fast.
blueberries Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 yeah...if a man is willing to go on 3 dates with you, chances are, he really likes you but perhaps too shy to kiss you. i say go for it and kiss him first
Author TeacupMovinON Posted June 9, 2010 Author Posted June 9, 2010 I have always been able to tell one way or another, either they like me or they don't. Without any real tell tale signs that he likes me, I am scared to death to go in for the kiss! I feel like a school girl all over again. I do feel much better; however, that you think he may indeed be interested! :-)
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