To the BS; were you stalked by the OW?

[alg24]

Also, why the hell would I harass the BS who has done NOTHING to me? Was I curious to know what she looked like... Of course I was a little curious... Was I going out of my way to find out, honestly, no. I lived in a small town and eventually saw her... But I made it very clear to the BS once all the lies were figured out etc. I 100% respected her and her children and I wanted nothing to do with them (in a nice way)

[pureinheart]

I never stalked anyone, I think it is rude and intrusive. I was however stalked by exDM's W and kids, it's a long story and at that time they were all mental cases.

 

I also was stalked by a guys (according to him) exgf, she was also a nut case.

[pureinheart]

You may be right, Owl. I have never done that so I thought it best to appeal to the OP directly. I don't understand how the inherent disrespect in placing this thread in the OW/OM forum is not obvious. I don't believe many if any BS would appreciate a "To the OW: Were you stalked by the BS?" thread in the Infidelity forum.

 

Perhaps I should not even be posting... I was a OW. Did I talk to the BS? Yes. Did we have communication? Yes. Did I stalk her. NEVER. Would I harass her? NEVER. My life is my life and her life is her life. I would never have any desire to follow her, have my friends do such things (and they would never participate in something like that)

 

I think it has zero to do with the label "BS" or "OW" and has everything to do with the actual person. I am sure there are MANY BS who have the OW followed, harassed, etc. I would think it really depends on the person..

 

Sick disturbing behavior-- such as stalking, harassing, etc. is a very chemical unbalanced person.

 

Most definitely on both posts...I thought the same thing also Stop the Drama....

[MizFit]

I was reading the forum as I was travelling home last night...I was of the same opinion as stopthedrama and pureinheart. IMO the title and original post are absolutely fine for the Infidelity portion of the forum, but highly inflammatory and offensive here.

 

I had taken the decision to not respond in this thread because the originator had made a previous comment I take things she says personally...but when I saw a few others with my same opinion I decided to lend my voice.

 

Someone had suggested reporting it to the mod...I don't do that. I much prefer to address things directly if, and when, they need addressing. In that light...I find this completely the wrong portion of Love Shack to have this particular thread. I would imagine if there were a similar one to end up on the Infidelity thread with the labels turned about there would be all he!! on about it-and I would completely agree.

 

And now for my response to the post-from people I know and from what I've read here there is a curiousity from the OW to the BS which is not dissimalar to that of BS to OW. I have never heard personally about either party 'stalking' the other...obviously it does happen, but it has nothing to do with the label put on the person. In here you don't hear much about stalking 1 way or the other either...curiousity at best.

[MizFit]

Motives? I don't have any motives, but to ask a question.

My topic is NOT about infidelity but about OW. If you're so offended, you always have the option to ignore. Freedom of speech is a beautiful thing

 

It was a question 'about' OW, not for them. The question was not one to have answers from OW, but from BS about OW...therefore, in your own words, it should not be in this portion of the forum.

 

Freedom of speech is a beautiful thing, but every freedom has limits.

 

For the record I think this is a very interesting topic and I think it would have been more interesting to ask both OW and BS if they have been stalked by the other party.

[RedDevil66]

It was a question 'about' OW, not for them. The question was not one to have answers from OW, but from BS about OW...therefore, in your own words, it should not be in this portion of the forum.

 

Freedom of speech is a beautiful thing, but every freedom has limits.

 

For the record I think this is a very interesting topic and I think it would have been more interesting to ask both OW and BS if they have been stalked by the other party.

 

If it should not be in the OW forum, let the mods move it. It really doesn't make a difference to me. You and Miss Drama obviously are putting a lot of energy into this and seem to be only interested in causing trouble.

Listen, you have issue with it, contact the mods, let them move it and either constructively contribute to the thread or move along.

[RedDevil66]

I don't see anything that would warrant being reported or a violation.

 

you got a particular post in mind?

 

There are no violations. Some people just like to start trouble.