SassyC Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 My husband and I both has emotional affiars. We have both decided to work on our marriage and will start counseling within the next two weeks. BUT... he keeps accusing me of things I did not do. I keep answering his questions and being honest with him but he is saying some horrible stuff. Example: I am a stay at home mom with two kids. This morning he says to me "How do I know you did not have people coming over the house when I left for work." I have said to him time and time and time again that I never had sex with the man I had the EA with. He keeps accusing me of this stuff and I seriously feel like I can not take it anymore. What do I do?
imagine Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 Sassy, Make an appointment for both of you to have a polygraph test. He may be trying to misdirect you to think that he is innocent. Both of you need to clear the air. Polygraphing is NOT cheap, but a whole lot cheaper than a divorce!
Rabican Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 My husband and I both has emotional affiars. We have both decided to work on our marriage and will start counseling within the next two weeks. BUT... he keeps accusing me of things I did not do. I keep answering his questions and being honest with him but he is saying some horrible stuff. Example: I am a stay at home mom with two kids. This morning he says to me "How do I know you did not have people coming over the house when I left for work." I have said to him time and time and time again that I never had sex with the man I had the EA with. He keeps accusing me of this stuff and I seriously feel like I can not take it anymore. What do I do? What is an emotional affair? This may seem an obivous question, but what is it to you?
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