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Okay, its been 4 or 5 months since she dumped me, I was bad for a while then went NC, I am completely indifferent to this email, I feel like a bank now... but I dont really care about that. Should I respond or just leave it be? I have been in NC for about a month or maybe 2, and I have a girlfriend that I really like, and have moved on. so.... advice?

 

EMAIL:

 

(My Name Here)

Well im writing you because I just wanted to let you know how much I appreciate everything you ever did for me in case I never told you, and I do not regret ne thing, what we had was real and you taught me alot about life love and myself and I thank you for that. You will always be apart of me.i wish you all the love, happiness, and success that life can bring to a person, you deserve all these things you r a good person. I no longer work at (old place) I quit thank god they were contributing to my unhappiness, the only happiness that u get is what u make, so I got a new job at (store name) its a department store as the assistant manager I make $14 an hour so I feel successful, I will be attending (college) in aug. And I have a love intrest so right now im happy. I hope u r too! you will be recieving money orders once a month threw september each one will be $150 to pay u back and I will also be sending pulp fiction back to u soon. if you move pleaae let me know so i can send your money straight to you, and good luck on your new job I hope that you do well! And i hope you had a happy birthday. Bye for now <3 (Her name here)

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There is no real reason you should respond to this. She might be trying to cover up her own guilt for leaving you by trying to become your "friend". I doubt you'll see the money either and therefore, I'd just let this dog die. You have a new interest and see no point in returning to her. Just let her suffer in not knowing anything about you. That's just my opinion.

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I would continue to go NC and ignore her. Don't respond to her email.

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Thats pretty much what I figured, thanks for the reinforcement

 

And No I wont see the money, She has "owed" it to me since feb. and until I went NC she mentioned all the time shed have the money in the next few weeks.

 

Meh, Ill frame it if i get it, lol

Posted

Well, you already know what you should do, stick to NC!

 

Oh, and, she's definitely not going to make it through college with that spelling :lmao::lmao:

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Oh, and, she's definitely not going to make it through college with that spelling :lmao::lmao:

 

Oh she has only dropped out twice now, lol...

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I wouldn't respond to this.

 

There is nothing here that suggests she is looking for a response. Frankly, a lot of what she says is just blather--I don't regret anything, what we had was real, blah, blah , blah. Whatever.

 

She just probably feels a bit guilty as the dumper for making you feel. Let her.

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