Seperation: the first step to happiness

[My_Single_Life]

I was married for three years to a man that was my "one and only".

 

I started off as a GREAT marriage... lots of sex, lots of talking, fun, being there for each other...etc..

 

But after having two children my husband started not coming home from work, taking anger out on the children and I, .....he would start hiding my Credit cards, money, car keys, cell phone...etc. to keep me "from being a bad wife"... which was strange bc i've never cheated or done anything that would make him wanna do any of that.

 

He also started using online dating sites towards the end of our marriage... but he used pictures of ME to trick other men into sending him nude pics of themselves. It took until he cut my arm while I was holding our baby daugther to realize he was never going to change back into the man i married

 

...... WITH THAT BEING SAID.....

 

I just wanted to say that I LOVE my life now.... i'm back in school, hanging out with friends again, enjoying my children and family, and i'm just all a round happier then I was with him

 

 

 

I wish everyone else good luck with their seperation and divorce.... it will get better.... just remember that YOU have the power to take charge of your life to make it better.

 

There's not a day that goes by that I'm not greatful for finding the strength to take my life back... for myself and my children

[AmeliaApple]

Good for you. If sounds as if you've reached a good place in your life.

 

Cheers!