JorgeAvila Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 Well im new to this. So i dont know what to say. But i just feel like i have to let the cat out of the bag.. Ive been dating a 24 year old girl. We feel like there is nothing wrgong but cant tell any one because shes scared of what people are going to think about her but she really likes me i can tell and i like her too... There is no sex involved or anything.. And we kind of want to wait till im 18 to tell our parents but im not sure if this is a good idea.. I consider myself as a mature 16 year old. We both go to church and feel like like this is a good thing for us. We both pray to the lord that if this his plan for us, then let it be. But tell me what you guys think.
someotherguy Posted June 8, 2010 Posted June 8, 2010 Frankly, I think this is a terrible idea. You need to trust your intuition that something is seriously wrong with this situation. 8 years won't be a big deal 20 years from now, but right now...it certainly is. If your sexes and ages were reversed you would be in jail rapidly. And while you think you're mature for a 16 year old, in a few years you will realize how much growing up you have yet to do. She is in an entirely different phase of her life than you, and it speaks volumes about her own maturity that she is interested in a boy when she should be seeing men closer to her age with careers, education, etc. I'm not trying to belittle you, but the fact is, she has some kind of issue if she thinks it's acceptable to be seeing you at your age. Also, you should really be enjoying some girl your own age, and the naive fumblings that go along with spending time with someone as new to dating/the world as you are. Tell this woman to find a man her own age, and go find yourself a nice girl that you can enjoy sunsets and icecream with.
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