taylormade2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Hi, I'm a first-timer, so please bear with me...Prior to this year I had been single for 3+ years. I met guys intermittently and even had "somewhat" of a constant "thing" going towards the beginning of last year. This ended when this individual stated that he had a crush on a woman and has job and saw fit to spend an entire Sunday with her including an overnight stay! About a month thereafter I replied to a craigslist posting. I met this guy and we went out and had a ball! I admit I was not physically attracted at first, but quickly came around due to his personality. Throughout this time we mostly text because he said that he wasn't a phone person, which was fine with me because I'm not either. So we would speak sometimes and sometimes we wouldn't and there was one instance where we didn't speak for almost a month! This was around the holidays, so when we came into the new year I told this individual that I didn't want to have anything to do with him other than friendship and he could keep it moving. Of course he protested and I started receiveing multiple calls and texts and things of that nature. Long story short, here it is June and we've moved in together, did that in March, but in these last couple of months alone I've fond out that he's an ex-pimp, but not only that, hes an ex-pimp that got one of his hoes pregnant!! I've found out that during the time we were talking, he was still posting craigslist ads, and that activity JUST ceased this year once we were officially in a relationship(which I guess I can't be too mad at that), and I've found a recent craigslist "casual encounter" posting that he says was just an "experiment". Every single day this man tells me that he has changed and how much he loves me and that I am the one for him and that all he wants and needs now is a family and wants to create that with me. He is a sincere individual and his family is the same. I love them actually, but just today, my friend was telling me how I need to rid myself of the situation and move on, but I am at a complete loss...idk what to do..,Please help
bac Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Perhaps, I did not get the story right. How old is he? IMO If he was into multiple dating, he would not move with you unless there was a good benefit for him. If he is a player, there should be someting that he wants from you as benefits. And, it is not love and sex. A player would talk about love and sex all the time just for a show. Does he use you for something tangible like paying for things or other tangible uses? Can you provide for him something tangible other than sex?
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