Bangle Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 I asked a woman out today who I have known for a nearly four years, she is an former worker at my work and she just didn't take me seriously. I ask "Hey, I was wondering if you would like to go out sometime?" She says smiles and looks embarrased and says "you do not mean this?" I say " I do mean it, I have wanted to go out with you for a long time" She laughs and says "Sure, sure you have, I'll catch you soon, Bangle" and walks off. This is not the first time this has happened to me. It happens a lot with women who have gotten to know me, I have sarcastic sense of humour and people think I am all about jokes and witty comments, and of course I smile and laugh, I was smiling as I was telling her these things or maybe women just think I am joke? I don't know. Its annoying, for sure.
TaurusTerp Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Could be that you're so drop dead gorgeous that she doesn't believe she could possibly get with a hunk like you, or you have been friends for 4 years and she has no interest in you.
Author Bangle Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 Could be that you're so drop dead gorgeous that she doesn't believe she could possibly get with a hunk like you, or you have been friends for 4 years and she has no interest in you. Working together for 8 months and knowing each other counts as friends? I guess that is it, but I have asked women out in the past who haven't taken me seriously and just played down my interest. "I like you a lot" is met with "no you don't". All the time it is angry, is it there way of rejecting me without meaning to hurt me? It dont work if that is the case, it dont work at all. All it does is make feel like a fool and makes me insecure. This dating stuff is real hard work.
jamal Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Dude, you keep getting friendzoned by these women because you become too friendly with them prior to letting your intentions known. Show them from the beginning that you want more than friendship. In fact it should be the reverse. First try dating them and if it doesnt work out then be friends with them. Never show your clowny side to women until you have dated or slept with them or else you will soon learn that the joke is on you.
Author Bangle Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 Dude, you keep getting friendzoned by these women because you become too friendly with them prior to letting your intentions known. Show them from the beginning that you want more than friendship. In fact it should be the reverse. First try dating them and if it doesnt work out then be friends with them. Never show your clowny side to women until you have dated or slept with them or else you will soon learn that the joke is on you. She was a worker in my workplace when I joined there and I never really counted her as a friend and just treated her like a worker. I dont feel like her friend, I was just myself as I always am, but I get your point. I'm going to go one further and not bother with women anymore for a while. I have more things on my mind, I just don't see I'm in this zone when I don't see them as a friends. Makes no sense.
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