lovebubble Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 I'm having the hardest time letting it go, although I want to very badly. At one point, I would obsess about the affair constantly.. Now, I'm at this point where I'm looking back over the past 4 years.. and ANYTHING that was suspicious then, I'm now making sense of it by thinking that he was cheating then, too.. although he claims it was a 1 time thing. I just feel so anxious all of the time. One min I forgive him, the next minuite I think the whole story is one huge concocted lie and it was a lot worse than he's painting it out to be. He's an awesome liar.
Disintegration Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Your feelings are completely normal. It is very hard to get over betrayal. You most definitely think back and wonder about everything he's ever said to you and wonder if it was true or where he was at was he really telling the truth. It's hard and as much as you want to forget and move on sometimes it's easier said than done. It's exhausting I know and you want to go back to the way things were prior but it does take some time. Have you tried counseling to help get back some sense of normalcy?
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