SomewhatExperienced Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 This is an update to the my previous thread http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t233313/ . I'm getting together with this girl for a drink today after work. I'm pretty nervous. When I wrote that post I was all excited but over time I've become for worried. I chronically overthink these situations. Since I last posted the girl past by me at work. I was standing outside in the sun minding some some product and she passed by all dressed up business-like with a colleague, we both waved and said hi and they carried along. They appeared to be headed somewhere so I made no worry about her not stopping to chat. I figured I'd get a text message later from her saying she was busy and couldn't stop. After, she actually came back to my store to say hi. We made small talk for awhile a talked about plans for today. When she left my co-worker made a comment: "Is the air conditioning on? Because it is HOT in here!". He told me she was obviously into me by the way she spoke. I'm going to get together with her, hopefully have a good time and feel it through, using my gut feeling. I think, at the end of the date I'll probably lay the cards on the table and tell her, without being too heavy, that I'm happy I ran into her again and we've gotten together, but I'm interested in her and if she plans on seeing out the next threes months with this guy it's not fair to him nor is it to me. That she can call me when he's out of the picture and we can see where we're at then. I suppose I don't have a really good feeling about this anymore. I've kinda psyched myself out because my latest dating endeavours have mostly ended in disappointment where there girl seems into me then flakes out. I'm kinda worried that this girl is humouring this idea of dating me, but just wants to keep me on the backburner until this other guy is gone. Anyway, if she won't leave him then I figure it's not really meant to be. On the other hand I might go and find out she's already split with him. Words of support here would be nice.
Author SomewhatExperienced Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 Oh, I should probably mention that I'm not expecting to marry this girl, though that would make a cool story. I just refer to her as "the girl I'm going to marry" because that what I called her when I told my friends about her for the past two years.
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