Thebob Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 So I was out at the bar with a buddy of mine and he was with all his grad student friends that he has class with. Their was a really cute girl within this group and I started to chat her up and what not. I had a moment to move in for the kiss but I decided not to due to the fact that her friend told me that she is in to the long-term stuff and she really thinks your cute and would definitely go on a date with you. The only problem from her point of view is that I am 21 and she is 23 and she is going to be 24 in September and Ill be 22 in November. She isn't the "DTF type" which I completely respect because I am past that stage in my life and I really want to find a steady thing. I told her friend that she doesn't need to worry about that since I like girls that are like that. But I really don't feel that age should matter, and if you like a person then age shouldn't separate them. So anyways I get her number and I texted her that I would like to get to know her more and let me know what day is good for you so we can meet up. She told me that she is available after the next 2 days and she is looking forward to my phone call about what time we meet up. Should I shoot her a text in the meantime to see how her day is going tomorrow before I call her? or should I keep her eager for my call? I am thinking of going mini golfing with her since it's fun and we can have a humorous and relaxing date. She is a really shy type of girl and she was burned in the past after a 5 year relationship and hasn't had a steady boyfriend for 2.5 years. We connected really well and I really don't want to mess it up. Ive always wanted to date a older girl since they are more mature and aren't living the wild party life like young girls are. I'm just looking for advice and from what I have told you does it look like things should be good? Thebob
Cracker Jack Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 This all sounds like it'll turn out pretty well. I don't think you need to keep her suspense for the call, though. I feel as though you should just call her whenever you're ready instead of waiting just to be waiting. However, if you don't want to call her just yet, I see nothing wrong with sending her a text just so she can know she was on your mind.
Author Thebob Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 I like the sending the text part that she is on my mind, but isn't that a little to mushy mushy since we haven't been on the date yet? I don't want to look like a wussy haha Thebob
Cracker Jack Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 Nah, man. I don't believe it's mushy. I mean, I guess it comes down to the girl--since some despise texts like that, while others find it amazing. I guess you don't have to tell her exactly that "she was on your mind", but you could throw her a text at least seeing how she's been doing. The best alternate to this would be to just call her; most women appreciate that more, I think. Either way, I think you're going to be fine.
Author Thebob Posted June 7, 2010 Author Posted June 7, 2010 Thanks man, yea the girls friend tries to find good guys for her to date because she has had a tough time copin with the long one that was 5 years, but she is ready to move on. And she wouldn't have tried to help me to get her friend to say yes if she didn't like me, and when they went off to talk about it all she could say was positives about how the girl thinks I'm cute and would like to go on the date. So I think all is well to, thanks again man. Thebob
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