Who's here?

[marilyn80]

I didn't know where to post this but I hope this will do. I don't have time to look at each person's individual story, but I was wondering who here on LS is/was OW, BS, OM, MM, MW, etc? Just curious. It kind of helps me when I'm reading posts. Also, I noticed some people just give advice but don't seem to have any particular problem presented to LS. Or if they did, it was long ago since their recent posts don't reflect it. Since I didn't go read all of their posts I'm sure I'm totally wrong. Their advice is helpful but it seems like the same advice is given over and over. There's also a lack of compassion in some of those "advisors'" posts. You can express tough love without being a snot, especially it you've been there before. That's just my observation. Overall, Most of you guys are awesome and very helpful.

[califnan]

Marilyn.. I feel I have been on both sides, to some degree.

 

I think those who would take the time to post - have either been on one side or the other - or both sides..

[pureinheart]

Hi M80,

 

I am all of the above with the exception of the OM...lol. Thanks for wanting prior knowledge about status, it does help to understand where most are coming from...

[White Flower]

I didn't know where to post this but I hope this will do. I don't have time to look at each person's individual story, but I was wondering who here on LS is/was OW, BS, OM, MM, MW, etc? Just curious. It kind of helps me when I'm reading posts. Also, I noticed some people just give advice but don't seem to have any particular problem presented to LS. Or if they did, it was long ago since their recent posts don't reflect it. Since I didn't go read all of their posts I'm sure I'm totally wrong. Their advice is helpful but it seems like the same advice is given over and over. There's also a lack of compassion in some of those "advisors'" posts. You can express tough love without being a snot, especially it you've been there before. That's just my observation. Overall, Most of you guys are awesome and very helpful.

 

Been the BW and OW. People tend to forget I was BW and only see me as the OW. People see what they want to see.

 

If you really seek advice, be honest without giving TMI. We can only help with what we really know about you based on our own experience. Good luck.

[Tony]

Dear OP:

 

This thread can become problematic and therefore is being closed. A thread is no venue for long explanations such as the ones you ask for. You can get your information as you become familiar with threads and posts in our forums. Thank you!

 

Thank you!

 

Tony

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