Curtis4015 Posted January 29, 2004 Posted January 29, 2004 I was wondering i cheated on my x girlfriend and i want her back i think the time apart that is happening is good for me giving me the chance to grow and find out what i want in life...We are not speaking right now but i was wondering if that on V day i should still send her flowers and give her tickets to see a musical because this is what she has wanted to see for a while she does not know i got them i will give her two and she can take who ever she wants if i should even do anything or just leave her alone and give her more time..?
stangchik Posted January 29, 2004 Posted January 29, 2004 I think if you are realizing your mistake and you want her back, the flowers and the tickets we be a good way to show her you still care and are thinking about her. But if you send her 2 tickets let who chose who to take, and if she calls to thank you don't push her let her have more time if she needs it.
caretoomuch Posted January 29, 2004 Posted January 29, 2004 may i also suggest an appology for your actions and maybe some sort of explanation.
stangchik Posted January 29, 2004 Posted January 29, 2004 I would suggest you leave that out until shes ready to hear it, but you could always include a little note in a card telling how much you love her...miss her....and how sorry you are. But try to keep from being something up to upset her, like you cheatin and why.
texastapper Posted February 11, 2004 Posted February 11, 2004 Yeah I would not bring up bad memories, just send her the things and a little note telling her that you are there. If she wants you back or wants you to be a part of thta night then you will definitely know. But I would strongly recommend not bringing the past up until she is ready to talk about it. And when that day does come that she wants to talk about it, just remember always agree with her and do not at all make it look like she was wrong. You have to let her see through you that you really have learned your lesson. As for the cheating thing, do not get back with her if you are going ot do it all over again, that totally defeats the purpose!! BE SMART and Hang in there!!
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