Author EmeraldHeart Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 I just called his home phone and no answer. I think I will just go for broke and call his cell as well. He already probably thinks I am crazy and will spread the word at work!
alexlakeman Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I just called his home phone and no answer. I think I will just go for broke and call his cell as well. He already probably thinks I am crazy and will spread the word at work! DON'T do it.. someone else stop the OP.... DON'T call him again at the cell... wait until Sun, or wait until he sees your missed call at home and hopefully returns the call Sun... omg, don't give in...lol ... here's have some cabernet wine... relax.. lol
Author EmeraldHeart Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 I already called both #'s and he only has voicemail for his phone. I left a message stating that not to worry, I won't be bothering him. I said that I was calling to confirm what I already knew was going on and him not answering my last text and answering either phone confirmed it for me. I said that I was hoping if this didn't work out that we could be mature about things and that when I have to speak to him at work, please don't use the shortened version of my name. I told him to take it easy and to take care. Even if he did still have an interest in me...he now thinks I am nuts and that would be the end of that! My # doesn't register on caller id.
Catherina Posted June 13, 2010 Posted June 13, 2010 I am sorry you are going through this, b/c no matter what, it ALWAYS sucks when you want to be with someone and they're just not interested. If I were you, the next time you get the urge to call/text him, call a friend instead and tell her to remind you that you SHOULD NOT CALL HIM. I do that all the time. It works. I know it's tempting, but if you have to remind a man that you exist, he's probably not the guy for you. I wouldn't even bring it up to him. Just act like nothing happened and move on to someone who appreciates you for who you are. He's out there, and he will find you.
Author EmeraldHeart Posted June 13, 2010 Author Posted June 13, 2010 Thanks Catherina. I already called last night and left a voicemail ending things with him. I let him know that I realized what he was doing and that I won't be bothering him beyond the voicemail I was leaving and that I was hoping that if things didn't work out, we could be mature about it. I asked that we be professional at work and ended the call with "take it easy and take care". He took the chicken way out and forced my hand to end things. I was the only mature one. I guess age really doesn't matter. I never thought a 42 year old man would act like this and play high school games. You know, it was inevitable. There were red flags from the beginning with this man and I chose to ignore them. Everyone has been telling me that I have not been happy since the 2 week of seeing this guy. Even though this was only going on for 2 months, I am still so hurt and I think because I know I have to deal with him at work....it is going to be that much harder to deal with and get over. I will never try dating someone I work with again. I am dreading going to work and having to deal with him and act like nothing is wrong, but there isn't anything else I can do.
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