PhillyDude Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Sending out various emails to women you are attracted to but you are getting replies to your profile from women who are not your type? Or if you do get a reply from a pretty women she lives in another state? After June, I think I'm done with online dating memberships and willl just focus on the free sites like plenty of fish and craiglist I refuse to pay for anymore dating sites
Ihavenoidea Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Yup, I either dont get a reply at all or the women sending me a message clearley isnt my type. My profile says mountain biking and rock climbing and various other activites, if you cant do those then don't message me. haha
Author PhillyDude Posted June 6, 2010 Author Posted June 6, 2010 Yup, I either dont get a reply at all or the women sending me a message clearley isnt my type. My profile says mountain biking and rock climbing and various other activites, if you cant do those then don't message me. haha And Even though its flattering to get a compliment from a pretty women out of state, I rather not receive that kind of message because it just gets me more annoyed. I really become IGNORANT when a ugly women sends me a message thinking she has a chance to get to know me. So I have now started saying in response to those types of messages-"sorry no attraction, not interested"
SierraRose Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 I have tried online dating & I am not impressed. I have clearly stated in my description what I am looking for (LTR). I get responces from married men looking a side piece, nut jobs, desparate, insecure, all around hot messes. I have come to the conclusion MOST (not all) of the people on those sites are socially retarted. I oroginally looked at dating sites as an opportunity to meet someone, but I find myself left more frustrated from the BS and games.
carhill Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 LOL, all those 'women' have been young and hot and I'm old and average. I just delete them, since they're either spammers or guys or dating site robots/employees. L O S E R S
flc Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 LOL, all those 'women' have been young and hot and I'm old and average. I just delete them, since they're either spammers or guys or dating site robots/employees. L O S E R S Yeah the 20 something beautiful russian women who want to be my soul mate. The english is usually quite entertaining but I suspect a Nigerian guy in an office somewhere cut/pasting pictures is behind the scenes
alexlakeman Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 Online dating has worked for me, but yes, you send out a dozen emails and get 1-2 responses... it is what it is, but that is just like at a bar, you might try to get a couple numbers, but only get one... It's a good return on investment
bac Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 Sending out various emails to women you are attracted to but you are getting replies to your profile from women who are not your type? I refuse to pay for anymore dating sites The most annoying thing is men's attitude which is cheap shopping for sex. They believe that if they have a membership, they are entitled to have easy short-term sexual relationships with all those hot beautiful women who have profiles there. The men are impersonal, have no interest in women's soul/personality, cheap, shallow, and not willing to put any reasonable effort in courting. All they want (for their membership of $30 per month) are to score with as many new hot girls as possible, to have sex as soon as possible and, of course, it includes a nice feature of multiple dating as many girls as he can handle. The rules of online dating is tough because males are so spoiled by their shopping oportunities online. For example, if a girl does not kiss a guy on 2 date, he is gone because he thinks that she is not so easy. As for expectations for sex, men find it to be reasonable that the first sex should happen on 1-4 dates.
sagetalk Posted June 9, 2010 Posted June 9, 2010 Sending out various emails to women you are attracted to but you are getting replies to your profile from women who are not your type? Or if you do get a reply from a pretty women she lives in another state? After June, I think I'm done with online dating memberships and willl just focus on the free sites like plenty of fish and craiglist I refuse to pay for anymore dating sites I once heard someone say to give it a full year, then quit if it doesn't work. You're mostly right about hot girls being out of state. I only had one that was in state from the site I used and she was pretty cool. The ones messaging me from out of state were awesome. Not so awesome that they were fake accounts, but awesome none the less. The distance was just too much to overcome. I'm not that talented I guess .
sagetalk Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 The rules of online dating is tough because males are so spoiled by their shopping oportunities online. For example, if a girl does not kiss a guy on 2 date, he is gone because he thinks that she is not so easy. As for expectations for sex, men find it to be reasonable that the first sex should happen on 1-4 dates. Sounds like you are saying "no" to the right guys and "yes" to the wrong ones.
bac Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 Sounds like you are saying "no" to the right guys and "yes" to the wrong ones. Not really. I give a chance to everyone unless he is a total disaster.
brainygirl Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 I'm not a guy, but I get annoyed at the forgeien born guys who message me telling me they are in love with me from my profile. I think its a scam. In fact, I'm sure that even though the picture is of a white guy, its someone from nigeria on the other end.
alexlakeman Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 The most annoying thing is men's attitude which is cheap shopping for sex. They believe that if they have a membership, they are entitled to have easy short-term sexual relationships with all those hot beautiful women who have profiles there. The men are impersonal, have no interest in women's soul/personality, cheap, shallow, and not willing to put any reasonable effort in courting. All they want (for their membership of $30 per month) are to score with as many new hot girls as possible, to have sex as soon as possible and, of course, it includes a nice feature of multiple dating as many girls as he can handle. The rules of online dating is tough because males are so spoiled by their shopping oportunities online. For example, if a girl does not kiss a guy on 2 date, he is gone because he thinks that she is not so easy. As for expectations for sex, men find it to be reasonable that the first sex should happen on 1-4 dates. This is everyone? Do you have a source for this statistic? I'd be curious to read it. As for kiss by "x date" or get laid by "x date"... it's all tied to finance, weather you are looking for a relationship or not.. CPL - cost per lay and ROI - return on investment are ideally kept low....if not cut bait and move on.. even if looking for a relationship, as is in my case. There is nothing cheap about it... no different than going to happy hour and meeting someone.. just a little easier b/c you get to exchange some email at first...
bac Posted June 10, 2010 Posted June 10, 2010 This is everyone? Do you have a source for this statistic? I'd be curious to read it. Of course, there are no official statistics. Who would care for a such research? Would Match.com do a such research to prove that they serve ONS's community? But, if you meet a bunch of online's guys IRL, they are all the same like the clones. Perhaps it is about age because my men and me are around 40s. Perhaps some young guys in 20s would want serious relationships because they have not had experiences of LTRs. So, they are curious about that.
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