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Should I ask him to hang out?


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I saw this guy on an online dating site and I sent him a message. We wrote back and forth a bit and he asked if I had a facebook. We started emailing on there and he added me as a friend. It turns out we have a few friends in common in real life. I looked at his posts and pics and stuff and he seems like a cool guy and it would appear that we have a lot in common. We were writing back and forth pretty frequently for a few days. In his last email he asked how I was going to go about starting a particular project (we're both artists so we were talking a lot about different projects we're working on), and I responded with a brief explanation and thought he'd respond, but he never did. That was a few days ago. I see that he is still active on facebook (he posted something vague about feeling depressed), but I'm a bit sad/confused that our conversation suddenly halted for no reason.

 

I was thinking of writing to him and saying, "Hey, would you want to go to an art walk sometime?" He really seems like a neat guy and I don't run into a lot of people who I'm attracted to, otherwise I'd just let it go. But if he didn't respond, I figure he's not into me. Should I give it one more try, or just take a hint and leave him alone?

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I'd say go for it... it certainly wouldn't hurt trying. Sometimes when people don't respond, it might've been a glitch on facebook or something.

 

You'll never know until you try... unless there was like a death in his family or something, if he genuinely likes you, I think he'll agree.

 

Btw, some guys find it hard to read girls... lol, would be best if girls were blunt, but most are not :S

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I just don't want to be annoying or overbearing.

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I just don't want to be annoying or overbearing.

 

 

Well you said the last time you talked was like a few days ago right? That's barely annoying lol... or maybe he's just waiting for you to contact him?

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