Heatemyheart89 Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I've pined so long for my ex even when he clearly didn't want me.I've realised now I don't miss him I miss being in a relationship.I know it sounds stupid but I really feel I won't find anyone again.I'm not a hot girl that gets approached in clubs I get ignored :(anyone else ever fear they won't find anyone?
Angel Pie Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 Im going through a break up now- I have that same fear that I wont meet anybody. I have no interest in going to clubs- the men there are trash anyhow. I will never do a dating website and I now have so many mistrust issues because of my ex I feel like even if I did find one I would ruin it because I cant ever trust again! I would love to fall in love- I enjoy relationships but I fear that I will be alone forever now.
This Hurts Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I feel just how you feel. I don't really miss my ex or crave talking to her and I think it's because of the same reason you mentioned: pining over her for so long when she clearly didn't want me. After a certain amount of time of wanting and wanting and wanting, and not getting any attention in return, we kind of start losing interest. The only times I wish she'd contact me is when I feel lonely, and I know this can be easily cured by going out or going over a friend's, so I know it's not her I miss, it's the company. I, too, feel like I'm never going to find anyone. I'm nowhere near like most people, and I think I'm going to have a hard time finding someone who loves my differences (they're not necessarily bad, just different from most guys). I feel like it was a huge miraculous coincidence that I met my ex and she liked my unique traits and we hit it off so well, so now I fear that's never going to happen again and I'm going to be alone for a looong time. I'm not a hot girl that gets approached in clubs I get ignored Those are actually the type of girls I'm attracted to. Not in clubs, though, they're usually in bookstores or coffeeshops or anything like that. They're cute I'm not just saying that to appear sweet, by the way, I am genuinely attracted to those girls haha
Stephie Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 I miss both its getting easier but its still hard... I worry that I will never be able to give my heart to someone like I did to him, I worry that if I ever do find someone he will always have my heart. We had been engaged for a yr and I was starting to plan the wedding and was so close to what I have always dreamed about. I just turned 26 and I am so affraid I will never find anyone that measured up to him.
This Hurts Posted June 7, 2010 Posted June 7, 2010 I worry that if I ever do find someone he will always have my heart. I can relate.
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