SemperParatus Posted June 6, 2010 Posted June 6, 2010 My ex broke up with me for good about 3 weeks ago. We had always been off and on with each other. Recently she was the one doing all the break ups, swearing she was done. Then, she would come crawling back, crying, and honestly... I'd go back into my old ways and be very abrupt with her. So, this last time she said it was for good for real this time and she wasn't coming back. Anyway, I was devastated and would call crying, begging, bargaining, the whole nine. She would just ignore me, but would talk to me on her own terms. I was a little distant whenever she contacted or tried to talk after I had really needed to speak with her. I found out she was in a relationship with some guy only a couple of days after we broke up. I wasn't too upset about it though because I know this is how she copes. It's not like she does anything sexually or falls in love, she just kind of uses people to get her mind off me, which is wrong. Anyways, the last day we had together before we went to separate schools was confusing. We weren't together and she was still with that other guy. She had cried and just wanted me to hold her because she said she would miss me so much. She eventually calmed down and we listened to all of "our songs" on her ipod at a picnic bench outside. It was great, she sang songs to me about wanting to be together and all of this stuff. And right before she left she told me two things... 1. If I don't talk to you everyday don't be upset, I just need space. 2. Listen to the song "Thinking of You" by Katy Perry. The song was basically about being with someone else, but it's not the same because she's already had the best. The song goes on to say she is always thinking of her ex. So you see? I was very confused. We texted a little bit later that day, but that was it. I was ignored for two days after that and I heard that her facebook said her summer was going great and couldn't be more perfect. At that moment, I decided to drop off the face of the earth. I put my phone away, turned off the computer, and haven't been in contact with anyone but family and one friend that wasn't mutual for about a week now. I had that friend log onto my facebook because I was told that people were worried about me because I hadn't been in contact. Well, it turns out I had a message from one of my ex's friends that I had added on facebook a long time ago, but her and I had never talked. Well, she randomly said she was deleting friends and asked if she knew me. I definitely didn't reply because... I knew my ex had probably put her up to it. Now, since I haven't had my phone I don't know if my ex has tried to contact me via text or call, but she has had other people try to contact me through facebook obviously because I have her blocked on there. Keep in mind that my birthday is coming up in about a week and my ex and we have never gone more then 2 or 3 days without talking even if we were angry and not together. I'm so confused. My ex is trying to contact me through other people obviously because she has no way of reaching me, but I am not responding to anyone. I have taken time for myself and I am enjoying it. However, I do miss her. I have no way of checking my messages and seeing what she has said to me or if she has called because my phone is put away somewhere I can't get it. I didn't plan on getting my phone back for another week, but should I get it back now? I am very curious as to if my ex has texted or called me. Does anyone have an idea of what I should do or some advice for me? Thanks.
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