Why do some people think that the world revolves around them when it doesnt???

[Ilovehim]

There is this guy I "dated" I guess you could say a year ago...The chemistry wasn't there from my side (dont really know about him)...We never kissed or anything like that, but were getting to know each other. I met my current boyfriend after and started going out with him. (The guy found out about me dating someone right after). However, I was polite to the guy, NEVER RUDE, or anything, just was not into him.

 

 

Now you think that with all this happening (me stopped talking to him & having a boyfriend right after that) that he would get the point that I am not interested, it was the opposite. He went on to think and tell people how much I liked him and all this nonsense. It's rediculous. He also used to tell me how every single girl liked him and how cute he thought he was and how he didnt want a girlfriend but evrybody wanted him. And apparently he must have thought I liked him?? Really?? When I was in a relationship right after I stopped talking to him.. And a year later he is telling people how much I am into him when I havent spoken to him in a year??

 

 

I actually thought he was bisexual for many reasons. I'm so annoyed right now that WHILE I HAVE A BOYFRIEND AND AM VERY HAPPY HE WOULD TELL PEOPLE THIS NONSENSE AND MAKE ME LOOK LIKE AN IDIOT FOR NO REASON. I know this is stupid and patty but can someone tell me how to react to such a childish stupid situation??? Thank you!!

[Cracker Jack]

You ignore it.

 

Sure, easier said than done, but the guy is clearly a jealous idiot. No reason to expand energy on some pathetic guy who wants your attention.

[Ilovehim]

Thank you for your response. It just annoys me that he is making me look bad in front of people, like Im into him when I never was and actually thought he was gay. I do plan on ignoring it, I just wish it would stop angering me.

[Cracker Jack]

No prob. And I can't stand people like that, either. I guess some people feel as though if they can't have you, the best they can do is sabotage what you have to make you feel down and out like them. It's really pathetic.

[mixwell]

In all honest you don't look like the idiot but he looks like a psycho by telling people you're into him and if they saw the way you 2 interact they would think he is nuts.. From a douche bag pathetic attempt to interest you I believe that is why he was trying to tell you how all these chicks want him, he is trying to add value to himself but he sounds like a douche.. If you're in a happy relationship with the new boyfriend you should really not give 2 shlt$ about what this guy says because again he is the one that looks pathetic being single and trying to make himself appear an entity by bragging and hype himself up..

 

Don't even waste your time on this guy.. Seriously, what a joke.. It's obvious he is the one that has the huge interest in you and not vice versa..

[Serenitynow]

It's obvious he is the one that has the huge interest in you

 

He is just looking for acceptance, his psycho path brain cant handle that not every girl likes him.

 

A guy like that really has no interest in her at all. Its simply the issue that he cant deal with that fact that she "doesnt" like him.

 

If she gave in and said yea lets date, he would treat her like dog meat and be out boinking 10 other girls.

 

And believe me, guys like that SERIOUSLY think that girls drool over them.

[ADF]

I am not sure what you mean when you say you stopped talking to him. Do you mean you tried to do a disappearing act?

 

If so, then the mistake was yours. The disappearing act is the lowest, most cowardly, most disrespectful way a person can exist a relationship. If that is what you tried to do, then of course this guy is going to make trouble for you in any way he can. If you treated him like a peice of s____ on your shoe, why wouldn't he?

 

ALWAYS tell a person when you're not interested. Yes, it can require you to have a difficult, uncomfortable conversation. But you owe other people--even guys like this one--at least that much respect.

Edited June 6, 2010 by ADF